Are you married? Could the right person make you fall in love again?

[JBT1980]

Originally Posted by Coolhand68

. A lot of people are in love with love, and the idea of love.

I agree 100% people like the whole fairytale of love and like the idea of being loved more then giving love out also..

I think people think getting married will add to their life and when they find out it doesnt make things any better and life can still get boring and mundane they think its the relationship when in reality its just natural for two human bings too become stagnant..

I thinku should only get marired if you arent a very selfish person because if u are and think the next big thing you deserve then i dont think its for you..

[JBT1980]

Originally Posted by Brainy Intellectual Type

Maybe we married our spouse during a time in our lives that we had less options. Maybe that has changed and now we have more money, more power, more social options, more confidence and the ability to attractive a far more attractive (in all ways) mate or lover. What then? Do we throw away the new ability to attract a higher quality love?

I know this sounds like a Hollywood Actor who dumps his wife once he hits the big time and now has woman he could never attract throwing themselves at him. But we have different options at different times of our life and what was great once is not so great anymore when we move up in life.

I could be wrogn but sounds too me like you werent the most attratcive person when you were young and didnt get allot of attnetion from men now you look better or whatever and are getting mroe attetion and love the feeling and want to make up for the time when you were younger and ignored by guys..

[marshfield mom]

All it took was him turning his back on me and waiting too long to come to his senses....

[sophialee]

Originally Posted by Brainy Intellectual Type

Maybe we married our spouse during a time in our lives that we had less options. Maybe that has changed and now we have more money, more power, more social options, more confidence and the ability to attractive a far more attractive (in all ways) mate or lover. What then? Do we throw away the new ability to attract a higher quality love?

I know this sounds like a Hollywood Actor who dumps his wife once he hits the big time and now has woman he could never attract throwing themselves at him. But we have different options at different times of our life and what was great once is not so great anymore when we move up in life.

Does this have anything to do w/ the three men you are attracted to other than your husband?