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to what extent do you think your extremely sexy appearance would work against finding a good husband?
If you being so hot was the reason he initially came on to you, is there any minimal guarantee that he'll stop at you and not further operate on 'who's the hottest' even after you form a couple ?
Let's also assume you're the intellectual type (also ) and would like to find someone you can genuinely relate to. If every man in the room looks at you in (just a) sexual manner because your looks are so alluring, is there any way ofdetecting someone still fairly attractive and intelligent who is NOT only after the sex?
(We-ll leave aside the scenario in which you have sex will all interested with a view to discovering who'll hang around afterwards for the longest period of time :P)
As if the hypothesis were not complicated enough, we'll also state the well-known fact that even if most guys would like to sleep with you, only few will actually hit on you because you're so hot that they think their chances are too little. It's not like they are all up and active and asking you out and you're just plainly assessing who's worth dating for awhile and who's not.
So how do you then operate, knowing all this while you're planning to find a keeper ?
I'd say don't sleep with anyone until you both get to know each other and you know he is truly interested in you. If the guy doesn't want to stick around after finding out your not going to sleep with him the 1st couple times you see each other then he's clearly not that into you. If he sticks around for a awhile and asks you a bunch of get to know you questions and you are hitting it off then give it a shot. The worse thing that could happen is you go through a few *******s to find your prince charming, in that case you gave it your all and end up with a winner! Just bc you're incredibly gorgeous doesn't mean you can't find a man who is really interested in you, but everyone attraction is the first thing that brings 2 people together. And if you walk around thinking that your that hot then its a problem for you.
If I were drop-dead gorgeous, very, very sexy...men would be lined up at my feet begging to be chosen. Then my chosen mate would be my sex slave, maid, mechanic, handyman, white knight, masseuse and cook all rolled up in one!
If I were drop-dead gorgeous, very, very sexy...men would be lined up at my feet begging to be chosen. Then my chosen mate would be my sex slave, maid, mechanic, handyman, white knight, masseuse and cook all rolled up in one!
If I were drop-dead gorgeous, very, very sexy...men would be lined up at my feet begging to be chosen. Then my chosen mate would be my sex slave, maid, mechanic, handyman, white knight, masseuse and cook all rolled up in one!
If I were drop-dead gorgeous, very, very sexy...men would be lined up at my feet begging to be chosen. Then my chosen mate would be my sex slave, maid, mechanic, handyman, white knight, masseuse and cook all rolled up in one!
any other hypothetical approaches for the hypothetical situation apart from the obvious course of things ?
to what extent do you think your extremely sexy appearance would work against finding a good husband?
If you being so hot was the reason he initially came on to you, is there any minimal guarantee that he'll stop at you and not further operate on 'who's the hottest' even after you form a couple ?
Let's also assume you're the intellectual type (also ) and would like to find someone you can genuinely relate to. If every man in the room looks at you in (just a) sexual manner because your looks are so alluring, is there any way ofdetecting someone still fairly attractive and intelligent who is NOT only after the sex?
Hi crossing over,
One thing is always so simple. Don't put out. The ones in it for sex will go away.
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(We-ll leave aside the scenario in which you have sex will all interested with a view to discovering who'll hang around afterwards for the longest period of time :P)
As if the hypothesis were not complicated enough, we'll also state the well-known fact that even if most guys would like to sleep with you, only few will actually hit on you because you're so hot that they think their chances are too little. It's not like they are all up and active and asking you out and you're just plainly assessing who's worth dating for awhile and who's not.
So how do you then operate, knowing all this while you're planning to find a keeper ?
Make it easy on the one you want to ask you. You glance at him a few time, get near him etc. If he is terrified and asks you anyway, its good. It means the stakes are high, he does not do it all the time, but had the marbles to ask you anyway.
If I were drop-dead gorgeous, very, very sexy...men would be lined up at my feet begging to be chosen. Then my chosen mate would be my sex slave, maid, mechanic, handyman, white knight, masseuse and cook all rolled up in one!
Hi seeniorita,
That is actually one reason why I did hang out with plain Janes for awhile.
One thing is always so simple. Don't put out. The ones in it for sex will go away.
Make it easy on the one you want to ask you. You glance at him a few time, get near him etc. If he is terrified and asks you anyway, its good. It means the stakes are high, he does not do it all the time, but had the marbles to ask you anyway.
Did you know that many times men find knockout, absolutely stunning women are narcissistic, have no personalities and frequently a lousy bed mate. They have been told all their life they are beautiful and have never developed and relied on their beauty to get what they want in life.
This is not always true but I believe it is far more common then a not so attractive woman.
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) and would like to find someone you can genuinely relate to. If every man in the room looks at you in (just a) sexual manner because your looks are so alluring, is there any way of detecting someone still fairly attractive and intelligent who is NOT only after the sex? 
