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Old 11-17-2009, 10:48 PM
 
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Men are visual. Exposing the right amount and while leaving the rest to the imagination will do wonders.


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Said that right!
Hence the birth of the burka.
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Old 11-17-2009, 10:58 PM
 
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mir86,

I protest. This post lacks convincing visual references. Until this is rectified, I am afraid I will have to down grade its credibility to mere hearsay. If you choose to continue in this manner, expect to be under a wilting crucible of scepticism.
lol, you have a point! but wouldn't you say most guys hit on girls at a club to get some? As for how I dress..well I don't feel comfortable posting pics here, but all you can do is take my word for it
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Old 11-18-2009, 06:10 AM
 
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I've never heard of this type of 'rule' before. I think it depends on the person. Some people are more modest yet still sexy
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Old 11-18-2009, 06:31 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Seriously, first Impressions count if a woman dresses showing alot, many men will see her as a piece of meat and a potential quick lay, with no longterm serious plans, so if that is what you are after then dress like that.
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Old 11-18-2009, 07:25 AM
 
Location: Between Philadelphia and Allentown, PA
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I think some people just ooze sexuality and it wouldn't matter what they are wearing or NOT wearing. I think skin is definitely sexy though. Realistically though, how on earth are men or women for that matter supposed to show so much skin in the dead of winter ??? LOL
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Old 11-18-2009, 07:35 AM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Women are visual, too, guys...why don't you all (well, at least the buff ones) walk around with no shirts on and tight pants?

...sigh...a girl can dream, can't she?
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Old 11-18-2009, 08:49 AM
 
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The bad part of this study is usually some of the women who bare 40%...shouldn't!
LOL. Exactly.
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Old 11-18-2009, 09:14 AM
 
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lol, you have a point! but wouldn't you say most guys hit on girls at a club to get some? As for how I dress..well I don't feel comfortable posting pics here, but all you can do is take my word for it
Hi mir86,

You may find other odd creatures.

I had two flaws as a womanizer. So like those fire works that sputter out of the tube and blast too low to the ground making the front rows run in terror while the back rows wonder, "what the heck was that?" That was me. I liked my health enough to avoid STDs, and I didn't like lying to women to take something from them or toss them aside( I did lie for social experimentation. I really was not Wolfgang from Austria, though the girls really liked him). I kind of liked women.

I actually did go to clubs just to interact with women. I did not have sisters and I was grotesquely mauled by a bad girl friend. I had a lot to learn. I remember clumsily asking girls to dance without building rapport and so on until I sort of figured it out. I do remember some very confused women. I began to realize how my abstinence came off a cocky aloofness. I decided to keep that.

"comfortable posting pics" is reminiscent of "comfortably posing for pics" and a fine mental image. You are forgiven.
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Old 11-18-2009, 09:50 AM
 
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Hi mir86,

You may find other odd creatures.

I had two flaws as a womanizer. So like those fire works that sputter out of the tube and blast too low to the ground making the front rows run in terror while the back rows wonder, "what the heck was that?" That was me. I liked my health enough to avoid STDs, and I didn't like lying to women to take something from them or toss them aside( I did lie for social experimentation. I really was not Wolfgang from Austria, though the girls really liked him). I kind of liked women.

I actually did go to clubs just to interact with women. I did not have sisters and I was grotesquely mauled by a bad girl friend. I had a lot to learn. I remember clumsily asking girls to dance without building rapport and so on until I sort of figured it out. I do remember some very confused women. I began to realize how my abstinence came off a cocky aloofness. I decided to keep that.

"comfortable posting pics" is reminiscent of "comfortably posing for pics" and a fine mental image. You are forgiven.

that's exactly why I don't sleep around either..everyone else can have their std's. you're right though about clubs being a good place to just interact with the opposite sex. I learn a lot as well. I do meet the occasional guy who also just wants to interact and isn't looking for anything more, but who knows if its because I exposed 40% of my body or more lol.

thanks for forgiving me . I'm comfortable posting pics up on myspace/facebook but only people I know view those so its different.
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Old 11-18-2009, 12:48 PM
 
Location: My Private Island
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If I can't get a man because I don't show 40% of my body, then I don't need or want him.
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