am i a loser for thinking this? (date, feelings, relations)

[samston]

I feel sad and resentful a lot. does it make me a loser?

[ChessieMom]

Everyone has varying thoughts as to what a "loser" is.
However, I think if you feel that way a LOT, then it makes you depressing and not many people would want to be around you.

[samston]

Ok. Is this basic human psychology?

[ChessieMom]

If you are asking....should you already know the answer to this? Then yes. You should.

It's simple human nature, dude.

[samston]

Why is it human nature?

but i guess it makes sense. humans don't like depressing scenarios.

[ChessieMom]

Originally Posted by samston

Why is it human nature?

but i guess it makes sense. humans don't like depressing scenarios.

Generally, people don't wanna be around others that always bring them down. You would have to be a pretty detached person to not "get" this.

[samston]

I do get it.

[andreaspercheron]

It doesn't make you a loser but you really need to dig deep and ask yourself why you have feelings of resentment and sadness. Why are you resentful? Why are you sad? If you can't figure it out on your own then you need to seek a counselor who will help you dig deep and figure these things out.
If you are asking because you are worried about how a potential date will view you, well a person isn't going to want to be around someone who is down and angry all the time so, before you can successfully pursue a relationship, get yourself fixed.

[bobman]

if you don't stop moaning about it and take action to change your situation, then i'm afraid yes, it probably does.

Originally Posted by samston

I feel sad and resentful a lot. does it make me a loser?

[virgode]

Sad and resentful, sounds like depression?
Please don't ask me to explain depression, but there are
websites you can google.