Man Crisis!!!

[Twinkle Toes]

Ditto what Citygirl said!

[Anigirli]

I know sometimes tyhe good vanilla boys are not as exicting as the commitmentphobic guys. I gues its a challenage that most women want. If the other guy cant appreciate how fab you are then dump him for the guy that is being more kind towards you.

[Magnolia Bloom]

Yeah, what she said. And Dr. Joy Brown would say to go a year before dating again, to boot. Get to know yourself.

Originally Posted by CityGirl72

Neither - which is fine because there are millions of guys out there

Tyler doesn't want a relationship - so you aren't going to get one

Danny sounds like a wuss who can't move on - and if you don't want to be with him, then there's no relationship there, but I have a feeling that if Tyler wasn't in the picture you just "settle" for Danny

Sounds to me like 1) you are very young 2) you just want to be in a relationship the way you want it - without thinking about the actual connection to begin with

[Keeper]

IMO men who want 'friend with benefits' are just looking for sex with someone they know. I think most women equate sex with love which is not the case with most men. Of course there are exceptions to every rule...
I had someone I knew wanted to be a friend with benefits but I know I would have been the one hurt in the long run. Take a break from both.. think about what you really want in a relationship. Then sit down and list the good and bad about each. You may be surprised to find out neither fits the bill.