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I can honestly say that I've spent plenty of time with the girls and with the guy in bars and I've never once been hit on. Anywhere. Not once. I am married now so its not a big deal, but it just suprises me that there are people out there getting picked up on in public. Ladies do you get hit on a lot? Guys do you really approach women in public? It has never happened to me.
what you mean by hit on ? A man drill me? No I was not a bar girl either night club girl. So no idea.
If the attention all of sudden stopped (or when it does in a number of years) she would be devastated.
Well in her case I am just not sure because in one her previous posts it sounded more like she was complaining about the attention so I am a little confused with her. I woukd love to.get all that attention from.women.
I used to get hit on all the time. A lot of this has to do with where a person lives, where they work, where they socialize, how friendly they are, etc. I used to live in a huge city, work at the front desk of a gym when I wasn't touring, and I'm very friendly. So I got hit on a lot.
Are you kidding! I literally have guys standing in line to hit on me. ( I am an airline ticket agent).
Most of the time it's just innocent flirting by some guy who's traveling on business without the wife or g/f.
Sometimes it's more and they're more persistent. They want your number, ask you out, or want to talk about everything except for the matter at hand... While there are literally a 100 people standing in line behind them. Some try to flirt their way to an upgrade from business to f/c. Sure I'll upgrade you .. Would you like me to charge the $600.00 on the same card? Lol
You always have to be polite ( unless they get too aggressive), stand there and listen to their spiel all the while smiling and acting cheerful. ( all the while fantasizing stabbing them in the forehead with a dinner fork).
If you want to learn the art of avoidance and how to stick and move.. try being a customer service agent. You're a captive audience.. with nowhere to hide.
Some of my single co- workers keep wedding rings as part of their work supplies.... got my pens, metal stamp, keys, and oh yeah.. my ring. ( not that does much to stop it).
On the plus side I have met some really nice people too.
Are you kidding! I literally have guys standing in line to hit on me. ( I am an airline ticket agent).
Most of the time it's just innocent flirting by some guy who's traveling on business without the wife or g/f.
Sometimes it's more and they're more persistent. They want your number, ask you out, or want to talk about everything except for the matter at hand... While there are literally a 100 people standing in line behind them. Some try to flirt their way to an upgrade from business to f/c. Sure I'll upgrade you .. Would you like me to charge the $600.00 on the same card? Lol You always have to be polite ( unless they get too aggressive), stand there and listen to their spiel all the while smiling and acting cheerful. ( all the while fantasizing stabbing them in the forehead with a dinner fork).
If you want to learn the art of avoidance and how to stick and move.. try being a customer service agent. You're a captive audience.. with nowhere to hide.
Some of my single co- workers keep wedding rings as part of their work supplies.... got my pens, metal stamp, keys, and oh yeah.. my ring. ( not that does much to stop it).
On the plus side I have met some really nice people too.
This is what we tell the guys who start threads asking, "The cashier asked me how my day is going, and smiled. Is she into me? Should I ask her out?" or "The waitress at the coffeeshop is always really friendly towards me. Does she like me?" They don't understand when we explain that service personnel are sitting ducks. It's not fair or realistic to get personal with them, and to think they're into you just because they're being pleasant as required by their job.
Sheesh! Thanks for posting the customer-service-rep's point of view. Great post.
I'm curious as to why you would want that problem?
Really? Why would a guy NOT want that problem?
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Thanks for posting the customer-service-rep's point of view. Great post. 
