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I have noticed that when I am happy, I get hit on A LOT. It's just attractive when someone is happy, and other people respond. Looks is part of it, but not all of it.
Usually the easiest way for hetero men to understand is to imagine being hit on 10 times a day -- not by women, but by gay men who are bigger, stronger, and with better lawyers than you. This helps clarify the fact that the hitting-on comes from people you are in no way attracted to, and that it often has a predatory undertone.
I have noticed that when I am happy, I get hit on A LOT. It's just attractive when someone is happy, and other people respond. Looks is part of it, but not all of it.
Completely understand.
I get hit on a lot when I am happy with myself.
However, 90% of the guys I get hit on are not datable.
Her intent is to put a different perspective on the female situation and to point out that the grass isn't necessarily greener.
We could all do better to try and understand where the other gender is coming from, objectively. There are things that men have trouble understanding about life as a woman, and definitely vice versa. So Nila's post was an analogy created to help in that regard. Does that make sense?
There was a link from Reddit that asked this same question. It began something like...
"As a guy, I wanted to know what it was like to be a woman on a dating site"
The results were very scary.
Interested souls can search the 'net for the results (hint: he shut down 'her' OLD profile in two hours).
I saw that. I'm pretty tempted to call bs on it though. He couldn't put up with a few dozen messages? Any adult in a corporate environment doesn't this all day, and those are a lot less amiable than people who want to have sex with you, even if they're rude about it.
More like a fairy tale, ....you were Romeo and I was Juliet
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