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i was having a fling with a man. He wanted me to go to his place one night. But i also found out the same day he ask me to go to his place, he was trying to meet another woman.
From that information, I didn't want to sleepover and told him no. The whole day he kept contacting me to ask me why not, he was persistent. I did not want to blurt out are you trying to **** other women while Fing me?!
I want to ignore him but i want to tell him why I don't want to see him but I can't pinpoint what it is. (one: i just feel he treats other women better than me- but I can't assume that and can't say that) I want to make a strong statement to him.
Stop having "flings" with men and start having relationships with them. It'll make things easier in the long run.
Have more confidence in yourself - if someone is being that persistent after you've already made up your mind, put an end to it. Look, you don't have to take that crap from anyone, ever.
Just be honest with the guy and be done with it. Tell him the same thing you said here, "I don't think this is going to work. I know that you've been hooking up with other girls while you've been with me. I'm just not like that. Have a nice life." - then hit send. Ok, don't text it, but you get the point. It's just that easy.
There's just no point in driving yourself crazy over figuring out what to say. He wasn't good enough for you, so why waste the time on him? Just do it and get on with life.
Yes, I believe it has ran its course and if you are looking for a committed realtionship place your efforts into that and if not then I believe its still time for you a change flings.
Why do you want to make a strong statement to someone you are just having a "fling" with? Flings are just that, no strings attached. If you want more, just tell him you deserve better and keep on moving.
Exactly my thoughts.
If you are a "fling" - it's a nothingness. I would not even approach a "fling," I'd rather jam a pencil in my eye than look like an over-reactive, needy fool. I'd just go on my merry, happy, little way doing the Miss America wave, moving onto bigger and better ventures.
Let me get this straight--Your having a Fling with a Guy, yet expect him to be Monogamous?? what kinda logic is that??
Yeah, kinda like getting a free meal then bi*ching about the food. Sort of...
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