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This doesn't make any sense. Get my hustle on and forget women? And how exactly do I plan to separate the women who love me for my money from the women who love me because of who I am?
People can hate on this comment all they want, and I'm sure many will -- simply because it's put in somewhat "slangy" urban terms, but for the most part, I completely agree.
Men who have nothing to offer women (because they put no energy into themselves and their lives) who then complain that women are "shallow" or "b***y" or some other deragotory adjective make me laugh. Um, no -- women, like all humans, want quality. What exactly is wrong with that again? Quality comes from effort. You want a woman? Don't be a slob. Clean up your act and you will get one.
One way to "clean up your act" is to put more effort into your professional life and "stack bills" as the OP put it. You can also put more effort into your body by hitting the gym .. your mind, by hitting the uni, library or bookstore, etc. There's lots of girls out there. Different bait for different fish .. but please, don't just sit on a dirty couch (or fouton) with a dirty shirt on, shoveling some sort of fried chip down your throat, slurping a 64-oz something or other, playing a video game and complaining that women don't "get you."
They get you just fine. They get that you're the kind of monkey who is too lazy to go for anything other than the low hanging fruit. Back when we were all monkeys, you were the monkey who always had your you-know-what in your hand because you never got any for real .. meanwhile, those monkeys who were getting up early and going to bed late, out there hustling and "stacking bills", or "bannanas" as they were called back then, had b***es to spare, so to speak.
I think this is fine advice, as long as a person doesn't become too focused on money. If your life is your job-job-job, you'll be too busy to enjoy it.
This doesn't make any sense. Get my hustle on and forget women? And how exactly do I plan to separate the women who love me for my money from the women who love me because of who I am?
The women who love you for who you are will love you even more when you stack your bills. Your quality of life will make you the ultimate man with them.
The point is not to EVER go after women but don't let women stress you out if you are not successful with them.
Women are already expensive and many are gold diggers so why not upgrade your game?
To all of you men out there, instead of always chasing women, getting frustrated when they won't go out with you, bitter because of a divorce, don't know too many people.
Why don't you use your time and stack your paper. Start a business or some other enterprise. Then, the women will come to YOU.
There was a quote: "You will lose money chasing women but you will never lose women chasing money."
Then when you focus your time and energy stacking your paper, then you can travel and get women as you please around the world instead of complaining that they won't give you the time of day.
You don't need to have a woman up under you 24/7 to be happy and fulfilled. Make your money and the rest will follow.
This sounds strikingly similar to what's been getting written about lately over at The Rational Male Forum - Index and dating coaching sites. Build a lifestyle first, worry about women second. A good lifestyle will always benefit you and has the added benefit of helping to draw women to you thus decreasing the amount of time you spend having to chase them.
Note: a shortcut is to just go to certain places in Europe and Asia. An awesome lifestyle can be had for cheap and just being an American can get you instant rock star level status.
The women who love you for who you are will love you even more when you stack your bills. Your quality of life will make you the ultimate man with them.
The point is not to EVER go after women but don't let women stress you out if you are not successful with them.
Women are already expensive and many are gold diggers so why not upgrade your game?
I love that women say they don't care about money. I am sure they hit on guys without cars, the ones in the unemployment line, or the dude jockeying the fast food counter right?
I agree with your advice in the general sense of GYST advice. BE someone who you want to be and the rest will follow. No man alive likes being a broke desperate mess.
A wise rapper once said, "**** *******, get money"
But yeah anyway, what about those who do something they love but don't get tons of money for it? It seems you women only think in absolutes; either a guy makes six figures and looks like he was carved out of titanium by Zeus himself, or he's an obese slob who makes his money doing "odd jobs" like serving warrants (think Dale Denton in Pineapple Express).
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