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Old 12-20-2009, 08:07 AM
 
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Am I saying do not pursue ladies you find interesting? No.

I am saying develop other aspects of your life. Such as culture and other interests. Take courses or volunteer to be some kids "Big Brother".

It's never later to learn how to speak another language or play an instrument.

Work on your career or start the business you've always wanted to start.

This is just advice I am giving to guys that make pursuing women the center of their lives. Don't do it. Life is to short. Go out to a movie by yourself or even dinner. I do it all of the time. Dating comes easy for me BUT on most occasions, I'd rather be by myself.


I makes no difference to me if I have a lady in my life or not. If I do fine, if not, that's fine also.

Have fun. Enjoy yourself. You only life once fellas.



Ron
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Old 12-20-2009, 08:54 AM
 
Location: Bellingham, WA
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Done.
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Old 12-20-2009, 08:59 AM
 
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I think that applies to both sexes not just men.
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Old 12-20-2009, 09:00 AM
 
Location: Iowa, Heartland of Murica
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Having a woman in my life is very important. I understand what you are saying about maybe not making it your #1 priority but going to bed alone sucks and I am not even talking about sex. I have been talking to a girl for the last month or so and although, we have never done anything sexually, I like to be able to talk to a woman about life and other things. It would not be the same if she was a man.
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Old 12-20-2009, 09:02 AM
 
Location: Bellingham, WA
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Done.
BTW I didn't mean this in a smart ass way. I think the OP is very good advice.
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Old 12-20-2009, 09:06 AM
 
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It sounds very odd to me when I hear about people thinking about getting booty 24/7 and that they have to be given advice to get a life outside trying to score booty 24/7.
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Old 12-20-2009, 09:29 AM
 
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This is why my life is an ellipse, and it's NOT a circle

I was an analytical geometry geek in my youth. An ellipse has 2 foci and not just one centre point like a circle, which also goes around in circles, haha. An ellipse accommodates more area, as well.
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Old 12-20-2009, 09:35 AM
 
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This is why my life is an ellipse, and it's NOT a circle

I was an analytical geometry geek in my youth. An ellipse has 2 foci and not just one centre point like a circle, which also goes around in circles, haha. An ellipse accommodates more area, as well.
LOL.......that reminds me of my Trigonometry classes.


Good stuff.
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Old 12-20-2009, 09:37 AM
 
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It sounds very odd to me when I hear about people thinking about getting booty 24/7 and that they have to be given advice to get a life outside trying to score booty 24/7.
Yeah, I know plenty of guys like that. Mainly guys I work with. I think to myself, don't you guys have anything else to do? Nothing wrong with having a girlfriend or lady that you date but making it a 24/7 pursuit. Get a life, really.



Ron
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Old 12-20-2009, 09:47 AM
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Yeah, I know plenty of guys like that. Mainly guys I work with. I think to myself, don't you guys have anything else to do? Nothing wrong with having a girlfriend or lady that you date but making it a 24/7 pursuit. Get a life, really.



Ron
agreed. and the ones that worry about it tend to over analyze things and fail in the end (see: a few posters here). the guys that are real chill, liviing life for themselves normally have the most luck.
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