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Old 12-25-2009, 04:37 PM
 
Location: down the shore
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So I've been single since the "baby" and I ended on Nov 4th. I have recently had a one time FWB situation with a long time friend of mine who has been after me for several years. He was very happy with it..My end, not the worst but not the greatest but at least its something.

So I told him for Christmas that I wanted some sex for my present. He said fine. I ended up working yesterday and had a headache and was dead so I passed out last night. Today, I sent a very specific text suggesting the evening with specific details on the ending..His response was: wow. I talked to him a little later and he didn't mention one word about it and it didn't sound like it was going to happen..Any man would have killed for this text mesage..I don't get it

A. Perhaps you are emitting an air of desperation, which can certainly be a turnoff.

B. Someone else got to him sooner.

C. He's enjoying Christmas with loved ones.

D. All of the above
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Old 12-25-2009, 04:38 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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Maybe he doesn`t take you seriously?
Instead of texting the guy the glorious details of what could be happening, you should have just text.."Where are you?"
She should've sent a provocative MMS. Texts don't work always these days.



It's still not too late
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Old 12-25-2009, 04:40 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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And what are you wearing? LOL
Exactly!

She should tell him that she is wearing her "nightie" waiting for him.
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Old 12-25-2009, 04:41 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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My text messages are real describing real things...
Maybe that's the problem. I think not all men are fond of such explicitness.

Last edited by sierraAZ; 12-25-2009 at 05:03 PM..
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Old 12-25-2009, 04:41 PM
 
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a) He chickened out due to your forwardness
b) He was so turned on he, uh, shall I say 'took matters into his own hand' and had nothing left for you. <shrugs>
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Old 12-25-2009, 04:42 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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What I'm trying to say is that this person has been chasing me for years. We had a expierence which he highly enjoyed and was very surprised. Expressed numerous times of a reoccurance and I offered him one and he's not jumping on the opportunity (literally)
It could only be a couple of things.

one, it was not as great as you think it was.

two, he could be a hit-it and quit-it kind of guy.

three, he's somewhere else getting it.


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Old 12-25-2009, 04:43 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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a)
b) He was so turned on he, uh, shall I say 'took matters into his own hand' and had nothing left for you. <shrugs>
(cough, cough) OMG!!
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Old 12-25-2009, 04:50 PM
 
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So I've been single since the "baby" and I ended on Nov 4th. I have recently had a one time FWB situation with a long time friend of mine who has been after me for several years. He was very happy with it..My end, not the worst but not the greatest but at least its something.

So I told him for Christmas that I wanted some sex for my present. He said fine. I ended up working yesterday and had a headache and was dead so I passed out last night. Today, I sent a very specific text suggesting the evening with specific details on the ending..His response was: wow. I talked to him a little later and he didn't mention one word about it and it didn't sound like it was going to happen..Any man would have killed for this text mesage..I don't get it
I'm sorry, you lost me on the sex part!LOL...... He is straight, no? I'm dumb, but I could even figure that out.
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Old 12-25-2009, 04:54 PM
 
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Maybe that's the problem. I think not all men are fond of such explicitly.
Unless you are gay, you are fond of it!LOL........
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Old 12-25-2009, 05:00 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Unless you are gay, you are fond of it!LOL........
I really don't think so. Not everybody likes sexually aggressive women. Some men prefer being in charge and feel emasculated by such behavior.
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