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As some of you may have seen in the "work" part of this forum, I was supposed to get a review from work today which would tell me if I will be kept after the holidays.
I was freaking out to my boyfriend of 3 and a half years for about 3 or 4 days.
Today I was told I will be kept () which is AWESOME news during this economy and its state.
I called my boyfriend to tell him and he goes on for ten minutes about his day. And I say "cool". And then it is silent for 2 minutes. Finally I ask him "Arent you going to ask me about my review?"
He says "Oh...yeah.."
"Did you forget?"
"It did slip my mind for a moment."
I don't know but it made me soooo angry and hurt inside. People from work remembered to ask me. I EXPECTED someone who has been dating me for 3 and a half years to remember.
Am I overreacting? What should I do? Am I right to feel like this?
Believe me, I TOTALLY understand your frustration, but guys are forgetful about stuff like that and it doesn't mean he doesn't care. I would have my moment of anger and let it go. If he didn't give a crap or he forgot your b-day I would say let him have it, but in the grand scheme of things, it really is a minor thing. If I've learned anything, its pick your battles.
I understand how it can hurt, but sometimes people genuinely forget about things. You should ask yourself if this is worth getting upset over. Only you know how truly important it was to you.
It was terribly important. I was so stressed about not having a job.
And I could understand if he was busy with stuff. School is out. He has no homework and works 10 or so hours a month. Sorry but I dont see how he forgot.
I was so happy about it and I am just feeling so upset right now
Have you talked to him about how you feel? I like your name and your status on here by the way!
Thanks Riss
I have not talked to him about it right now. But this is not the first time he has forgotten something. Not including my birthdays. As I said, he does not have homework or a regular job. He works for about 10 hours a month.
I kinda choked up on the phone and just told him I wanted to go.
Today I was told I will be kept () which is AWESOME news during this economy and its state.
I called my boyfriend to tell him and he goes on for ten minutes about his day. And I say "cool". And then it is silent for 2 minutes. Finally I ask him "Arent you going to ask me about my review?"
He says "Oh...yeah.."
"Did you forget?"
"It did slip my mind for a moment."
...
Why didn't you just tell him about your review? If there is something I want to talk about I tell people about it. I don't wait to be asked.
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) which is AWESOME news during this economy and its state.
