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Well what it ever is, you're few steps above the average woman when it comes to intelligence.
I suspect you have some hatred for women growing that is WAAAAAY out of proportion. YOU picked a handful of abusive women because your taste and radar draw you to them. You need a lot of work on your self esteem before you can pick a better mate. Right now you're going over the line of logic by using generalizations about ALL women. Once you do that you've crossed over into being verbally abusive towards people who haven't done anythiing to you and are not what you presume them to be. DO you want to become the same animal you fear?
But if you beat the hell out of them, then, firstly you go against all you've learned, that men shouldn't hit women.
Secondly, if it's an abuse situation, the abuser will already have a plan in place with family and friends etc, so that if you do snap, everyone will be on their side.
No matter if the person's been abusing you for 10 years, if you turn on them and give them the beating they probably deserve, then who do you think is gonna do jail time ?
I say again, you really have to be there to fully understand.
100% co-sign. This is why I refuse to get married or have a girlfriend. A few women on here think that I generalize women. Yes I do generalize women. I am not trying to end up behind bars over something that could been prevented by practicing avoidance. I avoid relationships like the plague.
I suspect you have some hatred for women growing that is WAAAAAY out of proportion. YOU picked a handful of abusive women because your taste and radar draw you to them. You need a lot of work on your self esteem before you can pick a better mate. Right now you're going over the line of logic by using generalizations about ALL women. Once you do that you've crossed over into being verbally abusive towards people who haven't done anythiing to you and are not what you presume them to be. DO you want to become the same animal you fear?
Generalizing women isn't a form of abuse. My generalizations of women prevent me from getting into a relationship with one.
If what I said to earlier was offensive, then I am sorry. I didn't mean for you to take it that way. I was trying to give you a complement.
This applies to lesbian relationships too, with some minor differences (yes, I'm a lesbian). Worse if one is "femme" or "girlie" and one is (like me) a little boi-ish. Generally? Abusers are *******s whatever their packaging or tackle. Why do they abuse? Again. They're ass holes.
A new warning sign I've picked up on are the "name callers". (This applies to both genders) They never say anything nice, you give a compliment, they (playfully) insult you back. You work hard on something you're not good at, they criticize you.
In short they'll find any way to put you down at the same time trying to force you to talk/be with to them in a very aggressive tone. These are the types of people that draw in the shy crowd and take advantage of them while trying to play it as being a go-getter or a leader.
I should have known when my ex's own father suggested that I was crazy to let her have access to guns. Naturally I assumed that he was joking. Silly me.
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