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Originally Posted by Avienne
Let's face it: Men created marriage back when marrying meant getting property or ruling an adjacent country, and the benefits have been stacked in their favor ever since.
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Live in the real world much?
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Originally Posted by Avienne
However, perhaps it's most telling that at the old folks home, most of the men want to get married again, and most of the women want nothing to do with it.
The men want someone to take care of them.
The women say their days of taking care of a man are over.
Ask your grandma. She'll tell you.
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Interestingly enough, my experience speaks of an entirely different reality.
A reality where a 92 year old husband was taking care of his 91 yeard old wife, because she was incapable of taking care of herself.
A reality where some elderly women have expressed the desire to be married, again. A reality where husbands and wives often switch back and forth in their roles of taking care of each other, the home and the children; as a result of their job's scheduling, illnesses and life in general; through out the lives or the duration of their marriage.
The reality is that in this day and age (and it's been like this for decades, now), men/husbands are just as often taking care of their wives, children and homes. Depeding on the individual situations and dynamics of each individual family or married couple.
Comments like yours are laughable. In fact, your comments are not dissimilar from the kind of sexist and misogynist comments some men make and that women so often get all worked up over.