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I find it hilarious that a woman doesn't have to respond to a man, but if a woman shows interest in a man he must respond or he's an a**hole. Just another man bad, woman good double standards around here.
You don't think calling someone fat simply because she had the GALL to be friendly is a jerk maneuver? I think so male OR female.
Yes, she came up to me, talking to me, and I told her to go to hell, called her fat (which she wasn't, but women hate to hear that), and I think she went to the ladie's room to cry...and I am still find it funny.
BUT, I never said I was rebuffed by women! I just said that it was a preemptive paypack against any future possible rejection, and that I was simply defending myself. That woman was up to no good.
I do not talk to women, and I would like women to not talk to me either. Simple as that.
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That seems a little harsh. This poster has a very different take on things, and one that will put him at odds with people, but I'm pretty sure he's under no obligation to be social just because he's in a bar. It sounds like he believes he has an obligation to be polite, but none beyond that. And if he's annoyed by someone approaching him, but he's polite, I'm not sure he's failed any aspect of the social contract. Really, polite's not even necessarily required. Would a woman's presence in a bar obligate her in any way to respond positively to a man's advances?
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Calling someone fat and verbally harassing them in public is a pr!ck move. Period. Social contract? No one is required not to be a pr!ck. That does not change the fact that he was, indeed, one. I would think a woman who is not a pr!ck could respond politely. Hell I do it all the time.
OK. I had not seen that bit of terribleness, so clearly I spoke out of ignorance. My apologies. Pr!ck is probably to kind a term.
lol i kinda folow those rules..I figure im just wasting time approaching women while theyre thinkign in their heads when will this unattratcive guy just leave me alone..
I kind of agree with this. I don't approach women at all because it's sort of a waste. It's pretty much guaranteed that I'm likely to get rejected at least 8 times out of 10 and some women don't want to be bothered. It's only worth it if you're a really attractive guy imo. I just stick to online dating, it's how I met my last girlfriend.
I kind of agree with this. I don't approach women at all because it's sort of a waste. It's pretty much guaranteed that I'm likely to get rejected at least 8 times out of 10 and some women don't want to be bothered. It's only worth it if you're a really attractive guy imo. I just stick to online dating, it's how I met my last girlfriend.
I don't really approach women either the relationships I had I just stumbled into when I wasn't looking. I'm not successful with and haven't been with many nor do I care to be. I have cousins who are successful with women are they're the biggest a**clowns ever. I have no interest in trying to be successful with every woman I see. If I stumble into a relationship again, great. If I never date again, that's fine as well. I can live without a woman.
While harassing women is not cool nor is being aggressive, but being assertive, showing interest, asking them out , befriending them, showing sexual interest and just socializing with them is perfectly normal.
I think you have taken things way too far. But hey if you want to live your life like this, go for it. You qre only ensuring that you will remain alone.
I kind of agree with this. I don't approach women at all because it's sort of a waste. It's pretty much guaranteed that I'm likely to get rejected at least 8 times out of 10 and some women don't want to be bothered. It's only worth it if you're a really attractive guy imo. I just stick to online dating, it's how I met my last girlfriend.
Same.
All my dates (and 1st base hookups) have been via online dating. I've never gone out on a date from a woman I met in real life.
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