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Old 05-07-2010, 12:22 PM
 
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Last year I got divorced after being with my husband a total of 7 years. He was only the second guy I've dated, so I don't have a lot experience getting out "there".

I am VERY flat chested, a 34 AA (for those who don't know that is smaller than an A-cup). Basically, I have no breast tissue whatsoever. This has always bothered me, and made me feel unfeminine. My ex-husband was totally against me getting implants, and I respected his wishes. Now that I am single though, I have decided to take the plunge and am scheduled for surgery next month. Since I am totally flat now, I want them to look realistic, and am therefore only going up to B-cup. My surgeon agrees that this would be a good size option for me.

I am doing this for me, and it is something I have always wanted, however, one thing that concerns me is that I have heard many male friends say very negative things about women with fake breasts. They have said they are ugly, feel weird, mean that the woman is crazy, insecure, sexually promiscuous, etc.

I am currently 31 and after taking a year to recover after the divorce, feel like I am ready to try to meet someone. Will breast implants be a total deal breaker to a guy? Should I tell a guy I am dating at a certain point that they aren't real?
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Old 05-07-2010, 12:23 PM
 
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You won't have to tell him....he'll spot it from across the country.
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Old 05-07-2010, 12:26 PM
 
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Do it. I love mine. I am tall and went to a 36DD.

They are and remain for me.

Feeling great about yourself....priceless!!!!!
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Old 05-07-2010, 12:26 PM
 
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You won't have to tell him....he'll spot it from across the country.

In my case I don't know if that will be true. I am only getting a B-cup, and tend to dress rather conservative.
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Old 05-07-2010, 12:27 PM
 
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In my case I don't know if that will be true. I am only getting a B-cup, and tend to dress rather conservative.
OK well they will feel different. I felt some once and it haunts me to this day. I would hope you'd be honest up front. So that way I'd know to go on to the next woman. I never want that horrifying feeling again.
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Old 05-07-2010, 12:28 PM
 
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Do it. I love mine. I am tall and went to a 36DD.

They are and remain for me.

Feeling great about yourself....priceless!!!!!

Thank you! It is good to hear from women who have had them done. Did it hurt a lot? Because I have no breast tissue, I have to get the implant put under the muscle and I am nervous about the recovery time, pain, and discomfort.
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Old 05-07-2010, 12:29 PM
 
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OK well they will feel different. I felt some once and it haunts me to this day. I would hope you'd be honest up front. So that way I'd know to go on to the next woman. I never want that horrifying feeling again.
I am sure the owner of the set feels the same way.
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Old 05-07-2010, 12:29 PM
 
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If you think you would look better with implants, go for it.

You are not doing this for men.

You are not doing this for other women.

You would be doing it for yourself. If you want implants, go get them.
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Old 05-07-2010, 12:31 PM
 
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Thank you! It is good to hear from women who have had them done. Did it hurt a lot? Because I have no breast tissue, I have to get the implant put under the muscle and I am nervous about the recovery time, pain, and discomfort.
Nope. Just like soreness. Like if you worked out to much after not being active for a while.
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Old 05-07-2010, 12:31 PM
 
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There is a very slim Asian girl at my job that got B cup implants. They look great, very natural.
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