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Old 05-08-2012, 10:39 PM
 
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Huh? You totally lost me.
Means if she is an active Mormon ( which we suspect she is more on the fence) then the subject of religion would have been covered within the first month. Usually that is one of the first items of discussion when deciding whether someone is compatible with you or not.
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Old 05-08-2012, 11:13 PM
 
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Means if she is an active Mormon ( which we suspect she is more on the fence) then the subject of religion would have been covered within the first month. Usually that is one of the first items of discussion when deciding whether someone is compatible with you or not.
Yeah, I don't know if it is one of the FIRST items of discussion, but I was thinking that if you were actively going to church (any church) and actively dating somebody, then the topic of what church you go to would come up fairly quickly.

For example:
HE: "Hey, want to go to the lake Sunday morning?" (or meet me for brunch, or stay over Saturday night, or whatever)
She: "Can't, I'm going to to church Sunday morning."
He: "Oh yeah, where do you go?"

and so on
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Old 05-08-2012, 11:41 PM
 
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Yeah, I don't know if it is one of the FIRST items of discussion, but I was thinking that if you were actively going to church (any church) and actively dating somebody, then the topic of what church you go to would come up fairly quickly.

For example:
HE: "Hey, want to go to the lake Sunday morning?" (or meet me for brunch, or stay over Saturday night, or whatever)
She: "Can't, I'm going to to church Sunday morning."
He: "Oh yeah, where do you go?"

and so on

Exactly.

It's definitely conversation material
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Old 05-09-2012, 08:34 AM
 
Location: The land where cats rule
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Oh, I believe most of us men, by default, have already made that our intention for thousands of years by now.
Really That is your intention with every woman you meet or have a social relationship with?

Are you very lonely?

There actually is more to a woman than sex and if you don't realize that, I feel sorry for you.
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Old 05-09-2012, 06:26 PM
 
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for the record, the fact that she dated a nonmormon does not have any real bearing on whether she is a good mormon or an active mormon or not, as i'm sure chango can attest. in fact, i can too; i dated nonmormons occasionally, and i'm still an active, good mormon.

crazy world, isn't it?
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Old 05-09-2012, 07:04 PM
 
Location: GIlbert, AZ
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Really That is your intention with every woman you meet or have a social relationship with?

Are you very lonely?

There actually is more to a woman than sex and if you don't realize that, I feel sorry for you.
Nope, been married for 19 years. Yep, older woman know thats what we want, its usually younger women that are so idealistic and naive about sex. I still have a great relationship, but getting laid is as important as urinating? If you can stop urinating, then let me know.
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Old 05-09-2012, 07:35 PM
 
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for the record, the fact that she dated a nonmormon does not have any real bearing on whether she is a good mormon or an active mormon or not, as i'm sure chango can attest. in fact, i can too; i dated nonmormons occasionally, and i'm still an active, good mormon.

Nobody said dating a non-mormon was indicative of whether or not she was a "good mormon".


Just the fact that if she were actively attending church, I'm sure it would have been mentioned w/in a month what her plans were for Sunday morning/afternoon...

This is basic 'getting-to-know-you' stuff.
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Old 05-09-2012, 08:05 PM
 
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Nope, been married for 19 years. Yep, older woman know thats what we want, its usually younger women that are so idealistic and naive about sex. I still have a great relationship, but getting laid is as important as urinating? If you can stop urinating, then let me know.
There are some things that just seem to mandate a rescaling and calibration of the class meter!
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Old 05-09-2012, 08:33 PM
 
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There are some things that just seem to mandate a rescaling and calibration of the class meter!
say what you want, doesn't change biology.
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Old 05-09-2012, 08:41 PM
 
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for the record, the fact that she dated a nonmormon does not have any real bearing on whether she is a good mormon or an active mormon or not, as i'm sure chango can attest. in fact, i can too; i dated nonmormons occasionally, and i'm still an active, good mormon.

crazy world, isn't it?
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Nobody said dating a non-mormon was indicative of whether or not she was a "good mormon".


Just the fact that if she were actively attending church, I'm sure it would have been mentioned w/in a month what her plans were for Sunday morning/afternoon...

This is basic 'getting-to-know-you' stuff.
In my case, love triumphed over religion. As for whether it's "happily ever after"... well, ask me in another 40 years!

I should point out that 2 of my sisters and two of my wife's sisters did basically the same thing... all were Mormon (at least on paper).

Seriously folks, Mormons do not live in boxes, and are not nearly as "peculiar" as people (themselves included) like to think!
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