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Old 06-09-2016, 03:42 PM
 
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I don't believe that human beings are capable of being truly selfless.


Do you have children?
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Old 06-09-2016, 03:53 PM
 
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Do you have children?
Yes. 2 girls.

And any parent knows that a child is utterly self-centered at their core. It's the natural state of human beings.
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Old 06-09-2016, 03:53 PM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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How does that work in nature? If you believe that human beings are just a process of evolution, why does that work? Helping others with no gain from it is contrary to the evolutionary process. You can compare us to pack animals and point out that we are like wolves--stronger as a collective, but do you really believe they feel the same emotions we do?
There is a gain. As stated, it makes one feel good.
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Old 06-09-2016, 03:54 PM
 
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There is a gain. As stated, it makes one feel good.
Why? How does that benefit the survival of a species?
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Old 06-09-2016, 04:10 PM
 
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Why? How does that benefit the survival of a species?
Why must it benefit the survival of a species? Don't human beings seek out pleasure because they like pleasure? It certainly seems that way to me.

At any rate, I find it interesting that I agreed with you and now you seem to be changing your position. You stated this:

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I don't believe that human beings are capable of being truly selfless. We are self-centered by nature. it's why communism has never worked.
Do you no longer think this way?
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Old 06-09-2016, 04:11 PM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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Yes. 2 girls.

And any parent knows that a child is utterly self-centered at their core. It's the natural state of human beings.
Why? How does that benefit the survival of a species?
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Old 06-09-2016, 05:00 PM
 
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And how do you know it's untrue? I've seen lives changed and people get off the path of a destructive lifestyle by having faith in Christ. We are not merely organic machines. Stress, anxiety, fear, depression are all mental states that have real physical consequences and religion and faith combats those problems.

The biggest tragedy is believing you have no hope and that life is a walk on a slippery narrow high beam and one slip up or mistake and you suddenly no longer exist. Everything you built is meaningless and ground into dust.
The placebo effect is real, yes. A belief in something false can cause real, measurable changes in bodies and brains.

But there's a downside to placebos and it is this: if I'm dependent on a placebo for my mental and physical health, then the truth (that it's just a sugar pill) can literally become a health hazard.
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Old 06-09-2016, 05:01 PM
 
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Helping others is ultimately selfish; it makes you feel good.
Nope, this sounds like a string being pulled behind a boat.
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Old 06-09-2016, 07:37 PM
 
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Nope, this sounds like a string being pulled behind a boat.
But it's true.

I have given away quite a bit in the past few years, solely because someone(s) needed help and I was fortunate enough to be able to accommodate.

I don't believe in loans. I don't like the thought of being beholden, or someone feeling beholden to me. So, if I have extra, I give it.

I MUST confess to all those fundanatics out there -- I enjoy it.

It.

Gives.

Me.

(wait for it....)

Pleasure!



Frowny-faced bible godling be damned.

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Old 06-09-2016, 07:50 PM
 
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Yes. 2 girls.

And any parent knows that a child is utterly self-centered at their core. It's the natural state of human beings.


Your assertion was that human are not capable of being selfless. I wonder how anybody with children could make that statement. I'm not referring to the children themselves.
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