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Old 09-30-2018, 12:02 PM
 
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Some people think we need religion because it prevents us from doing bad things. Believing that God is watching us and can punish us motivates good behavior. That argument has often been used against atheism, and is still being used by some. But it's a lame argument, because we don't need God to punish our bad behavior. Society will punish us. Atheists can be just as law-abiding and ethical as believers.

Some people think we need religion because it provides a sense of community and belongingness. Everyone in your church is like family, or at least close friends. You can depend on them, and you celebrate with them. But that's a lame argument, because it's easy enough to find non-religious organizations that provide the same things.

Some people think we need religion because we're afraid of dying, and because we want to meet our loved ones again in heaven. Well, maybe there is some truth in that argument. I personally don't want to believe something just because it makes me feel good. Also, there is a downside to belief in an afterlife -- I don't think you can logically believe in heaven without also believing in hell. Atheists have the disadvantage of no hope for heaven, but they have to big advantage of no fear of hell. Yes, I know, lots of supposedly religious, or spiritual, people think you can have heaven without hell. But no, that is just wishful thinking, which people in general are so good at.

Some people think we need religion because we live in a spiritual universe. Not believing in spiritual stuff would be irrational if spiritual ideas are based on reality. So that's my reason for "needing" religion. I need to believe what seems true. And this goes for many others, I suspect.
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Old 09-30-2018, 12:09 PM
 
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Some people think we need religion because it prevents us from doing bad things. Believing that God is watching us and can punish us motivates good behavior. That argument has often been used against atheism, and is still being used by some. But it's a lame argument, because we don't need God to punish our bad behavior. Society will punish us. Atheists can be just as law-abiding and ethical as believers.

Some people think we need religion because it provides a sense of community and belongingness. Everyone in your church is like family, or at least close friends. You can depend on them, and you celebrate with them. But that's a lame argument, because it's easy enough to find non-religious organizations that provide the same things.

Some people think we need religion because we're afraid of dying, and because we want to meet our loved ones again in heaven. Well, maybe there is some truth in that argument. I personally don't want to believe something just because it makes me feel good. Also, there is a downside to belief in an afterlife -- I don't think you can logically believe in heaven without also believing in hell. Atheists have the disadvantage of no hope for heaven, but they have to big advantage of no fear of hell. Yes, I know, lots of supposedly religious, or spiritual, people think you can have heaven without hell. But no, that is just wishful thinking, which people in general are so good at.

Some people think we need religion because we live in a spiritual universe. Not believing in spiritual stuff would be irrational if spiritual ideas are based on reality. So that's my reason for "needing" religion. I need to believe what seems true. And this goes for many others, I suspect.
This sort of sounds like a Yogi Berra quote.

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Old 09-30-2018, 12:29 PM
 
Location: Ontario, Canada
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I believe some "spiritual stuff" but have no need of religion.
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Old 09-30-2018, 02:03 PM
 
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Some people think we need religion because it prevents us from doing bad things. Believing that God is watching us and can punish us motivates good behavior. That argument has often been used against atheism, and is still being used by some. But it's a lame argument, because we don't need God to punish our bad behavior. Society will punish us. Atheists can be just as law-abiding and ethical as believers.

Some people think we need religion because it provides a sense of community and belongingness. Everyone in your church is like family, or at least close friends. You can depend on them, and you celebrate with them. But that's a lame argument, because it's easy enough to find non-religious organizations that provide the same things.

Some people think we need religion because we're afraid of dying, and because we want to meet our loved ones again in heaven. Well, maybe there is some truth in that argument. I personally don't want to believe something just because it makes me feel good. Also, there is a downside to belief in an afterlife -- I don't think you can logically believe in heaven without also believing in hell. Atheists have the disadvantage of no hope for heaven, but they have to big advantage of no fear of hell. Yes, I know, lots of supposedly religious, or spiritual, people think you can have heaven without hell. But no, that is just wishful thinking, which people in general are so good at.

Some people think we need religion because we live in a spiritual universe. Not believing in spiritual stuff would be irrational if spiritual ideas are based on reality. So that's my reason for "needing" religion. I need to believe what seems true. And this goes for many others, I suspect.
I can relate in a way to all of those except the last one. The first three are not reasons I consider valid, but I can see that they are comprehensible reasons. The last one seems lame and self refuting beyond taking seriously. It is no more that needing religion because you have got addicted to it.

It's you choice of course, but there's nothing there to persuade any others apart from those who are already hooked on it.
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Old 09-30-2018, 02:44 PM
 
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I believe we need religion because the family of God can get together and grow in love , and unity with the living God .... if people don`t believe in God and a humanist who reject any religion then they are not even in any program with the living God through Jesus , and judging religion from the outside
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Old 09-30-2018, 03:03 PM
 
Location: Sun City West, Arizona
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I believe we need religion because the family of God can get together and grow in love , and unity with the living God .... if people don`t believe in God and a humanist who reject any religion then they are not even in any program with the living God through Jesus , and judging religion from the outside
Except that many of us have been on the "inside".
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Old 09-30-2018, 04:10 PM
 
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Those were all valid reasons in the OP.

I suspect that those people who "don't need religion" are probably more financially comfortable than others.
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Old 09-30-2018, 04:29 PM
 
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Those were all valid reasons in the OP.

I suspect that those people who "don't need religion" are probably more financially comfortable than others.
Religions are simply algorithms. Interestingly, one can follow any algorithm and have no inclination as to the rationals behind each step and still receive the desired outcome as to one who is knowledgeable/well rehearsed.
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Old 09-30-2018, 04:42 PM
 
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Those were all valid reasons in the OP.

I suspect that those people who "don't need religion" are probably more financially comfortable than others.

LOL. I spent most of my adult life living well below the poverty line. Most money I made in a year was $23,000 and most years, my wife made less.


I didn't need religion then and I don't now, though today I have no financial worries.
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Old 09-30-2018, 05:45 PM
 
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Addendum: In the OP's 2nd graph, s/he mentioned a sense of community as a reason for people being drawn to churches. I totally get that for people who feel that need. Most likely because I came from a large, ethnic family who valued regular get-togethers, I never lacked for a sense of being part of a larger whole.


I'm sure that for many who were not so blessed, church can serve that purpose.
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