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Originally Posted by fumbling
Would you be able to give a few pointers on how you retired in 1985 when you were only in your mid-30s, like did you actually give up all work and income and just lived nicely on investments you made in your 10 years of working at a relatively high income or did you transition to consulting part-time for the extra income and live frugally?
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Can't give you pointers - because it's pretty individual-specific. Just the history. My husband was a plaintiffs' personal injury lawyer. And he had some very excellent settlement/verdict years (even after taxes - max rate on earned income was 50% then). I was a lawyer too - but not making anywhere near what he was making. In 1985 - we wound up with somewhat less than $2 million overall (with $250k in IRAs - we had always tried to "max out" our pension/IRA contributions) and we were both burnt out. So we thought we'd give retirement a try. Just cut the cord 100%. Figured if things didn't work out - we could always go back to work.
At the time - well the investment climate was a *lot* different. We could buy almost risk free high grade tax free munis yielding 7-9% and generate more money than we needed to live on. We weren't living frugally by any means (and still don't today) - but we were spending considerably less than our peers. Many of whom were (and still are) addicted to multiple (trophy) wives - multiple children by multiple wives - multi-million dollar houses (sometimes more than one) - really big boats - etc. Our 2 major passions were travel and food - pretty inexpensive in comparison.
My husband got bored after about 3-4 years - and returned to work with a friend. He realized immediately that it was a mistake - and it took him about a year to extricate himself from the new work situation. We've never gone back to work since.
A couple of observations. We feel fortunate in retrospect that we did what we did when we did it. My husband was diagnosed with MS shortly after we retired. It was a very benign case for decades - but started to affect him a lot more when he got into his 60's (he ran 3 miles a day for decades - but now needs a big leg brace and a cane to walk). We can't travel the way we used to (although we do what we can). Also - I think the relative lack of stress in our lives has meant we're healthier than we might otherwise be. We've had a fair number of friends die well before their times - and I think stress played a role in some of that.
We feel lucky in retrospect that investing in the 80's and 90's was almost a no-brainer. No matter what you did. Even buying something like CDs in your IRA worked. And - if you did anything fancier - like I bought a lot of zero coupon bonds in the IRAs and just sat on them - well the returns were breathtaking as interest rates fell over the years. Had we retired post-2000 - the investment terrain would have been a lot harder to navigate.
I think we were prudent in retrospect. At some point - it became apparent that the days of sky high interest rates wouldn't last forever. Nor would equities continue to climb to the sky in an unbroken line (the Crash in 1987 was an early scary warning signal). So we always saved a substantial amount of what we earned. We haven't touched the IRAs (which are now a much greater % of our total net worth) and won't until we have to take RMDs. Investing is easier when you have more money - your money doesn't have to work as hard to pay your bills.
My only regret in terms of investing is we might have been a bit too prudent. Not that we aren't ok financially today. But - for example - I always wanted to buy a second place. At some point a house in Aspen - at another a condo in New York. I always looked at real estate when we traveled
. My husband didn't want a second place (our only area of financial disagreement over the decades). So we never bought one. Today of course the house in Aspen and the condo in New York are totally unaffordable. And I honestly don't know what our real return on such a place would have been after taking decades of taxes/maintenance/etc. into account. Or whether we would have used such a place a lot. Anyway - as far as regrets go - it's a small one.
I think my husband's main regret is he would have enjoyed doing something like mentoring children in the last decade or so (and I think he would have been good at it too). But we read so many stories about bogus child (sexual) abuse allegations in situations like this. And then our homeowners' policy started to exclude coverage for lawsuits like this - even if they were totally bogus. So we decided doing work like this wasn't prudent.
I don't know that anyone can draw any great sweeping conclusions from our story. But it might give some people some food for thought. Robyn