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Originally Posted by atlguy44
The fact that the past 2 years have led to a deterioration in human civility, a solitary existence is not a bad idea until people relearn how to interact with others in a civil and respectful way.
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This about sums up at least my background thoughts.
First, I was a tiny, almost premie baby. I was 5#3oz at birth, mother was sent home while I stayed in an incubator for 3 mos, and weighed only 4#7oz going home. At 6mos, my father came home from college class to find my mother rocking me on her shoulder, crying. In a panic, he asked what was wrong.
She looked at him and said 'he just cried!' (for the first time I ever made a sound!)
But somehow I turned into a very hyperactive child. (Today I probably would have been diagnosed with ADHD and put on Ritalin).
Which some of the other kids didn't like, therefore didn't want to play with me).
Also in our small out in the country development, my parents were the youngest parents there, and I being their oldest, was the age of most of the neighbors youngest.
When there became a problem playing at a neighbor house, I was sent home, sometimes for what seems like stupid reasons.
Once for example, I was sent home for getting out of the sandbox
on the wrong side!
I was sent home, and by the time I got home the mother down the street had called my mother saying 'he can't come here ever again to play'.
Seems the folks there had a strict rule that kids only enter or leave the sandbox only on the back side, so any sand or footsteps damaging the grass would not affect the look of the grass on the sides or front as viewed from the house!
So, several times my mother would say "go out and play, stay in your own yard and play by yourself"!
So I was maybe'forced to be a loner'.
So, I don't mind solitude, but it's not aways preferred, maybe.
Spouse (S) is the social butterfly in the relationship, but S also likes the quiet solitude at home, just the two of us.
As someone above said, I might be very lonely if it wasn't for modern invention s.
I enjoy TV, have only antenna service. It's on a lot. I especially watch ME TV a lot.
I also post here, though I may take long breaks from, too.
I'll play music, still have a collection of CDs, or through YouTube on my smartphone.
The only thing that really bothers me is we really only have 3 close friends, but two live 45 mins away, and the third moved an hour away to another city.
No one but ourselves can spell trouble if we both became sick.
Here's a New Years toast:
Cheers for all the loner people!