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Originally Posted by Robyn55
Perhaps I overreacted to your post (I do that sometimes) - but it just kind of turned me off to see you rejoicing in making some money when there are a lot of people out there these days with big financial problems. I feel sorry for some - especially the working poor/lower middle class people who kept their noses clean and are trying very hard to make ends meet. Don't feel sorry about others - those who treated their houses like piggy banks and lived well above their means while the party was going on - and are now walking away from their obligations. I am doing ok financially as well - but I think it unseemly to do cartwheels about it (it would be like bragging to my housekeeper that I just spent $400 on a pair of shoes). About the political stuff - just said it because I didn't want people to think that I am in general a "bleeding heart" kind of person. I'm not.
Anyway - I apologize if you took my remark as a personal attack (although I personally will save the cartwheels until our local unemployment/foreclosure rates get back to relatively normal levels - things here in NE Florida aren't as bad as they are in south Florida - but they are pretty bad). Apology accepted (if so - we'll get on to other things)? Robyn
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quite frankly i see nothing wrong with rejoicing about making money in this enviornment.. in fact if you had the fortitude to bear the downturn in your investments ,ride out the painful storm, invest more or simply got your self to rebalance and buy more of what was dropping daily and you made money then your a financial hero and deserve a parade.
while alot of folks are out of work and hurting thats a given but im not refering to them... ,quite alot of new wealth was spawned or will be spawned as people bought all kinds of things at fire sale prices.
anything you bought last year has pretty much almost doubled with certain sectors up 200-500% over the year .
folks use anchoring alot in their minds also.no one expects to buy at the exact low or sell at the exact high yet the market peaks are always our reference and anything less then and we say we are down.
the guy who bought google at 90 and sold it at 600 thinks he did great even though it went on to over 800. the guy who bought it at 90, held it and it hit over 800 but rode it down to 600 says hes down.
then you got folks who did the wrong thing, they either thought they would time things and beat the markets at their own game so they sold near the lows and they never believed the ralleye was real and missed the run up so shame on them or they panicked and were in investments that they shouldnt have been..
then you got folks who just dis-regarded those words "investments contain risk" and without any knowledge of what they are buying just bought what their buddies at work bought then realized to late they should have educated themselves more about what it is they called a portfolio.
then you got those who found out they have less tolerance of risk then they thought and they did the wrong thing and bailed out.
there are many reasons people say they lost money , most are not the markets fault at this point as if you did the right thing your probley ahead if you still rebalanced on the way down or bought when everyone else was selling.
then you got those looking at money they put in long term investments and are expecting instant results short term. their money hasnt paid its dues yet and spent enough time to mature in the markets but they are complaining they are down with money they put in over the last 5 years.
the real deal is most people do more reasearch on buying a car or a refrigerator then they do their own financial well being.
they have no idea what they own, they think throwing money into a hodge podge of funds in their 401k is all they need to do to to call it a plan and they have no understanding of anything financial nor do they care to learn.
this is the same type of person who thought just buy real estate and the money will role in, not even realizing real estate is a profession like any other job. you need talent and skill to make money. they confused genius with a bull market in real estate. now they are burned.
im not talking about the sole who lost his job, thats a real shame but most of these folks who lost money in the markets did so on their own, not the markets fault .
im no genius ,and i and lots of others did the right thing and merely stayed the course, had a plan and stuck to it.. now we were rewarded for simply doing what any investor should have done and we did it with nothing more then mediocre average funds. available to anyone... they to had a choice to ride things out , keep rebalancing or add to their investments and chose not to.
no one has to feel sorry for those that did the wrong thing.
by the way im one of those who lost his job last month... i was going to retire next year but have gotten involved with another exciting job in a start up business venture and so retirement is officially on hold for now.