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Old 08-22-2012, 06:54 AM
 
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I'm just wondering how the dating scene in San Diego is for a straight NY male? I've definitely noticed huge differences as I moved from place to place. The NY dating scene is much better than Boston and especially better than Miami (which was a big surprise to me). I'm an athletic guy that lifts weights 3x a week, make more than $100k a year and drive a sports car. I don't think I'm the hottest property out there, I just want to be able to get a girlfriend. I'm currently living in Miami and looking to relocate. I can work remotely from anywhere in the country, so job is not a problem for me.

Are women approachable? Are they laid back or will they demand a wedding ring before the first kiss?

 
Old 08-22-2012, 09:24 AM
 
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I suspect that if you've had trouble finding a girlfriend in NY and in Boston and in Miami then you're gonna' have trouble finding a girlfriend anywhere.
 
Old 08-22-2012, 09:30 AM
 
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lol if you can't find a hot latina thang in Miami making more than 100k you are doing something wrong. relocating again isn't your solution
 
Old 08-22-2012, 09:54 AM
 
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I suspect that if you've had trouble finding a girlfriend in NY and in Boston and in Miami then you're gonna' have trouble finding a girlfriend anywhere.
yup. and honestly, if you are worried about women who want a wedding ring before the first kiss, i would definitely not flaunt the 100k/yr job and sports car. being athletic, fun, social and generally pleasant to be around should be able to at least get you a little action before she knows whether you make 20k or 100k. your age matters here too, if you are 23, that stuff looks more impressive (or trust fundish), but if you are 45, making 100k/yr and having a sports car in a wealthy city really doesn't distinguish you very much. fwiw, all the east coast cities have much more favorable male:female ratios for you. the west coast is a sausage fest.

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Old 08-22-2012, 10:19 AM
 
Location: San Diego
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yup. and honestly, if you are worried about women who want a wedding ring before the first kiss, i would not definitely not flaunt the 100k/yr job and sports car. being athletic, fun, social and generally pleasant to be around should be able to at least get you a little action before she knows whether you make 20k or 100k. your age matters here too, if you are 23, that stuff looks more impressive (or trust fundish), but if you are 45, making 100k/yr and having a sports car in a wealthy city really doesn't distinguish you very much. fwiw, all the east coast cities have much more favorable male:female ratios for you. the west coast is a sausage fest.
^ what this poster says.
 
Old 08-22-2012, 10:21 AM
 
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LOL if I made 100K in a broke ass place like Miami I would have a huge line of hot women waiting to bed me.
 
Old 08-22-2012, 10:32 AM
 
Location: La Mesa Aka The Table
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NYC is the best place in the world to hook with girls.
As for San Diego:
Unless you like young immature college chicks or married house wives San Diego is the exact opposite of NYC.
 
Old 08-22-2012, 10:58 AM
 
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It's here you just gotta work a lot harder.
 
Old 08-22-2012, 11:17 AM
 
Location: La Mesa Aka The Table
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It's here you just gotta work a lot harder.
Sounds like the OP doesn't want to work that hard!
I think he wants roll into town with his sports car and let the women fight over him

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Old 08-22-2012, 02:03 PM
 
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Never been to Miami, but I lived in both NYC and SD. My impression is that your average SD girl is hotter, especially if you like fit blondes. However, the gender ratios are definitely more favorable in NYC.
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