First off, stop posting in multiple threads. Get everything consolidated.
//www.city-data.com/forum/unemp...my-appeal.html
//www.city-data.com/forum/kansa...im-kansas.html
If you are this unorganized on a forum, you'll most likely do the same thing at your hearing. Stay focused.
You don't have to prove that you didn't do something. The employer has to prove that you did. Chances are that you did this to yourself. Have you gotten your hearing file yet? What did you tell the UI people vs what did your employer say? I don't want to jump between the various post to figure out just what is really happening to you.