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Old 09-26-2012, 11:09 AM
 
Location: Chapel Hill, N.C.
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i have removed myself from the contentious conversations in many of the Adoption Forums because I felt I had already said everything I needed to say.

However, Today is the 29th birthday of my oldest daughter. We have a tradition we started when she was about 4 or 5 years old. We look at the stars and we offer this prayer. This is from an e amil from my precious daughter who sent me some delicious pears for my birthday last week:


"love you! enjoy the pear for me! Beautiful weather outside. I feel very special today and have said our prayer for my biological mother, hoping she knows that she made the right decision."

What more could I want?
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Old 09-26-2012, 12:05 PM
 
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What a wonderful daughter! I hope she has a great birthday, and I hope that her biological mother is at peace with her decision, and understands what blessings have come from that decision.
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Old 09-26-2012, 12:34 PM
 
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Happy birthday to your daughter!
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Old 09-26-2012, 03:39 PM
 
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Happy birthday to your daughter.



Here is a fun "birthday features" site:

September 26 Birthday Features
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Old 09-26-2012, 03:44 PM
 
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Congrats , mom. Sounds like you did a wonderful job.

My own father was adopted (long story, but not a happy adotion and even sadder still, not a happy ending when he finally found his bio family) so I'm always happy when I read posts like yours....
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Old 09-26-2012, 04:20 PM
 
Location: The New England part of Ohio
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i have removed myself from the contentious conversations in many of the Adoption Forums because I felt I had already said everything I needed to say.

However, Today is the 29th birthday of my oldest daughter. We have a tradition we started when she was about 4 or 5 years old. We look at the stars and we offer this prayer. This is from an e amil from my precious daughter who sent me some delicious pears for my birthday last week:


"love you! enjoy the pear for me! Beautiful weather outside. I feel very special today and have said our prayer for my biological mother, hoping she knows that she made the right decision."

What more could I want?
What more could you want NK? Nothing. Nothing at all. You are blessed as is your daughter.
This brought tears to my eyes!

Beautiful mother, beautiful daughter, and a beautiful adoption story.

I love your tradition. I always thank God for the choice made by the wise and unselfish young girl who gave my daughter life, and went on with hers.
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Old 09-28-2012, 04:04 AM
 
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That is a beautiful tradition. Very touching. Happy birthday to your daughter!
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Old 09-28-2012, 06:54 PM
 
Location: Warren, OH
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i have removed myself from the contentious conversations in many of the Adoption Forums because I felt I had already said everything I needed to say.

However, Today is the 29th birthday of my oldest daughter. We have a tradition we started when she was about 4 or 5 years old. We look at the stars and we offer this prayer. This is from an e amil from my precious daughter who sent me some delicious pears for my birthday last week:


"love you! enjoy the pear for me! Beautiful weather outside. I feel very special today and have said our prayer for my biological mother, hoping she knows that she made the right decision."

What more could I want?
Happy birthday to your daughter. Your descriptions of your daughters remind Sheena and I of our own daughter.
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Old 09-28-2012, 07:24 PM
 
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Very touching. That's beautiful.
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Old 09-29-2012, 10:30 PM
 
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Happy birthday to your Daughter
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