This thread is interesting to me, not strictly based on the place of residence, and the personalities attached.
When I was in my 20's, I could care LESS what anyone thought about the laws, what I did, what the ramifications were, etc...
In my 30's, I started to become more aware of complications in my 20-something thinking, but didn't do much about it. I was very much "in charge".
My 40's came and went and I started to realize, LATE into my 40's, admittedly so, that I'm not immortal. A few close calls, whether by my own hands on the steering wheel, and/or on foot, or on my motorcycle, trying to save my own life, gave me a sober look at what is possible, through no fault of my own. *and that's not taking into account the times I was a jerk*
Now in my second year of my 50's, I can say that I am understanding more and more the difference between me and MY thinking, and that of the individual next to me, on the city streets/highway/urban roads or for that matter, the grocery store. I think the closer you get to heading down the "other side of the bell curve", the more you embrace the ways of those who don't think like you, don't act as you do, cannot understand where/what/why things are as they are, and are open to an 'aha moment'; where you start showing some respect for all those differences.
As I drive on the "mean streets" of my city, I have recently been touched by the differences between ME and MY experience behind the wheel/handlebars, and everyone else. Just like religion, people will use the messages they "hear/have learned/know is right/forgot/refuse to acknowledge", in whatever fashion behooves them, in the NOW.
And so......if someone is younger than me, I can sorta "get it". And if someone is OLDER than me, I know I have no CLUE yet, and should either hush my mouth, take what they say with a grain of salt, or dismiss it BUT NOT FORGET IT, 'cause it's NEVER.GOING.TO.CHANGE.FOR THEM. And if I want 'harmony', I'd better learn to walk around whatever thought process I have, that doesn't jive with theirs.
Someone who has lived longer than I, gets a pass. *this obviously excludes all Floridians as I have stated earlier, they are exempt. Ain't NO WAY yer gonna teach a senior in FL that what they're doing is wrong. Don't try. Wasted energy. Stop even thinking about it.* Let's move on, shall we? "And we're WALKING, and we're WALKING...."
Respect is something we're TAUGHT. There are those of us who use the thought process of respect in all aspects of our lives, and some, *read most*, pick and choose when it should/will be applied, as it applies to THEM.
"Debates" like this crack me up, because no matter the age, the place they live, the education of said individual, the "laws" are compared to a series of experiences that person has already endured. Almost everything is subjective. "THIS IS THE LAW".... "THIS IS THE LAW IN MY AREA OF TOWN AND IT'S HOW WE DO IT".... "I'M ONLY TRYING TO SAVE MY LIFE".... "HE ALMOST KILLED ME! YOUNG WHIPPER SNAPPER IS GONNA GIT HIS".... "IT MAY BE RIGHT, BUT DAMNIT, I'M GONNA DO WHATEVER THE FOOK I WANT"... "WHY DOESN'T EVERYONE GET THAT THIS IS THE BEST WAY TO DO IT?"............... I'm RIGHT, damnit!!!!!!!
Drunks, teens and 20-somethings, the elderly, assclowns, narcissists, people rushing to their next destination, distracted fooks, people eating or texting while driving, <-----read assclowns again, ALL have one thing in common; They don't give a CRAP what you think about their driving skills, or lack of them.
Discuss til yer blue in the face, or your fingertips hurt, the truth is that there is no concern for anyone but SELF when behind the wheel or handlebars, for MOST. Survival of the fittest.
Disagree?
bullie~