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Old 12-21-2009, 10:30 AM
 
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I dont know man....
Im kinda sure that if I catch you in the middle of having some gay sex, that its okay from then on to consider you "Just a little bit gay"
Sex doesn't define sexuality. Gay people have had heterosexual sex before, and heterosexuals have had gay sex. The activity does not define the orientation.
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Old 12-21-2009, 10:34 AM
 
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Sex doesn't define sexuality. Gay people have had heterosexual sex before, and heterosexuals have had gay sex. The activity does not define the orientation.
again...it more or less does...

Like, an example, If you get arrested for having sex with a child, you more or less can be considered from then on to be a pervert...

By this I mean you dont need to fill out a long questionnaire to get that point...
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Old 12-21-2009, 10:47 AM
 
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again...it more or less does...

Like, an example, If you get arrested for having sex with a child, you more or less can be considered from then on to be a pervert...

By this I mean you dont need to fill out a long questionnaire to get that point...
OK, whatever. The moment you start bringing in sex with a child, I'm done.
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Old 12-21-2009, 10:47 AM
 
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Nonsense.

You're either gay, or you're not. Engaging in gay actions does not make one gay, nor does it facilitate a homosexual identity. In the same way, a gay person having heterosexual sex doesn't make them straight.

We need to get rid of these outdated concepts.
sigh--engaging in sex with the same sex is a homosexual act---whether you are homosexual or not depends on your emotional/PSYCHOLOGICAL makeup as being homosexual also involves one's ability to only emotionally become intimate with the same sex(in other words--it ain't JUST the sex----though a preference for sexual intimacy with the same sex only means yes,you are homosexually oriented)

from a christian standpoint---it is against God's commandments(thou shalt not commit adultery)as only male/female marriages are recognized bibically
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Old 12-21-2009, 10:50 AM
 
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sigh--engaging in sex with the same sex is a homosexual act---whether you are homosexual or not depends on your emotional/PSYCHOLOGICAL makeup as being homosexual also involves one's ability to only emotionally become intimate with the same sex(in other words--it ain't JUST the sex----though a preference for sexual intimacy with the same sex only means yes,you are homosexually oriented)
Maybe, maybe not. Does a gay person who wants to try heterosexual sex make them heterosexually oriented?
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Old 12-21-2009, 11:07 AM
 
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Maybe, maybe not. ?
Well, it's like this.

Say you are a guy and work in construction .
One night after a hard day's work you go out with your co-workers to have a few beers.

As the night passes you get tired and decide to call it a night.
But because you have had a few beers you get the non-drinker in the crew to give you a ride home.

Now as he pulls up in front of your house you notice that all the lights are off , so you say that your wife and kids have already went to sleep.

So you and your co-worker buddy sit in the driveway for a second as you thank him for the ride and tell him ;"See you on Monday"

But rather then offer to pay him for the gas, before you get out of the car you ask your buddy if he would like to experiment with gay sex with you?

At that point you dont need to fill out a big long questionnaire about your sexuality...LOL...

Cuz You Are GAY!....LOL


No need to worry about it from then on, you are as gay as gay gets....
There is no such thing as "accidentally" ending up reaching for your zipper at that point.
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Old 12-21-2009, 01:03 PM
 
Location: Somewhere Out West
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How do you explain men in prison who have same-sex relations but immediately on release revert to opposite sex relations? Are they gay?

Laud Humphreys wrote a great book on the subject "The Tearoom Trade" - the outcome of his in-depth studying is they are not gay rather they are what is referred to as situationally gay - namely, any port in the storm will do.
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Old 12-21-2009, 03:38 PM
 
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How do you explain men in prison who have same-sex relations
This is truth about that...

Do you know why we find so much perversion going on in jail?...its because that where we stick all the perverts.

Having gay sex means you are gay...The old saying "Gay for the stay" is a little lie...

The truth is that you find a lot of perversion in jail because perverts tend to do lots of things against the law
----------------------.

The exception to this is the case of rape.

I do not think a case of gay rape, be it of a girl or a boy, should be counted as being gay.
In the same way as I do not think we should count the number of girls raped in a year when we talk about teens who are sexually active.
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Old 12-21-2009, 03:55 PM
 
Location: Prattville, Alabama
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YouTube - Understanding Homosexuality

This poor soul needs to stop bragging on satan, and find herself a man, because she's obviously in dire need of one.........!
I think it's time to call the men in the little white coats.....CAUSE THIS WOMAN IS A WHACK JOB!!!!
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Old 12-21-2009, 04:03 PM
 
Location: Denver, Colorado U.S.A.
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No, no, no... this isn't how you catch it! I was recruited at age 5 by the Village People! They lured me into their van with lollypops!

I think Betty Sue needs to seek mental health ASAP.
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