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Old 06-15-2020, 12:43 PM
Status: "I don't understand. But I don't care, so it works out." (set 3 days ago)
 
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I'm not sure this was an accident.

Reading through this article, and the GoFundMe linked in the article, these two were with their dad for his visitation weekend. They were 2 of 7 children of their biological mother, but it appears only these two were this father's kids.

He states he went to the Quick Trip (gas station that has several stores in Tulsa) at noon, returned home, got the kids out of the car and took a nap for 4-5 hours. Upon awakening, he states he couldn't find his children and later discovered they were in the truck on the floorboard of the truck, dead.

Video surveillance by a neighbor shows he never got the kids out of the car.

I hope they're investigating this as possible intentional murder, not lapse of attention. It would be interesting to see the video of him discovering them in the truck. Whether he made a beeline for the truck, or whether he did what anyone would do if their littles went missing from the house - check the yard, look down the street, check behind bushes, calling their names, etc. Or did he just walk out there, keys in hand, open the truck and carry them out?

https://ktul.com/news/local/father-a...ere-found-dead
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Old 06-15-2020, 01:53 PM
 
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I'm not sure this was an accident.

Reading through this article, and the GoFundMe linked in the article, these two were with their dad for his visitation weekend. They were 2 of 7 children of their biological mother, but it appears only these two were this father's kids.

He states he went to the Quick Trip (gas station that has several stores in Tulsa) at noon, returned home, got the kids out of the car and took a nap for 4-5 hours. Upon awakening, he states he couldn't find his children and later discovered they were in the truck on the floorboard of the truck, dead.

Video surveillance by a neighbor shows he never got the kids out of the car.

I hope they're investigating this as possible intentional murder, not lapse of attention. It would be interesting to see the video of him discovering them in the truck. Whether he made a beeline for the truck, or whether he did what anyone would do if their littles went missing from the house - check the yard, look down the street, check behind bushes, calling their names, etc. Or did he just walk out there, keys in hand, open the truck and carry them out?

https://ktul.com/news/local/father-a...ere-found-dead
Yeah, this has BS written all over it. He has one weekend alone with his kids, and he decides to spend FIVE HOURS of the afternoon taking a nap while his 3- and 4-year olds do what, exactly? That would not be the action of a normal parent. And he didn't notice they weren't around before he fell asleep? Didn't even get them settled in front of the TV with juice and goldfish crackers?

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Old 06-16-2020, 07:43 AM
Status: "I don't understand. But I don't care, so it works out." (set 3 days ago)
 
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Wow. KTUL has updated their story to reflect that the children DID get into the truck on their own.

How did LE miss that, with video of the truck during that time?

Also, how did LE miss that he DID remove the children from the truck when he returned from the QuickTrip, when they had it on video?

https://ktul.com/news/local/father-a...ere-found-dead
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Old 06-16-2020, 08:24 AM
 
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Wow. KTUL has updated their story to reflect that the children DID get into the truck on their own.

How did LE miss that, with video of the truck during that time?

Also, how did LE miss that he DID remove the children from the truck when he returned from the QuickTrip, when they had it on video?

https://ktul.com/news/local/father-a...ere-found-dead
That's bizarre. I'm sorry I misjudged the guy, but you have to admit it looked bad. It's still negligent to go to sleep for a long time when you're in charge of preschool children who are up and about and not in a secured location, but it doesn't sound like he forgot them or intended to harm them.
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Old 06-16-2020, 08:50 AM
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That's bizarre. I'm sorry I misjudged the guy, but you have to admit it looked bad. It's still negligent to go to sleep for a long time when you're in charge of preschool children who are up and about and not in a secured location, but it doesn't sound like he forgot them or intended to harm them.
I still don't know how they completely misunderstood this situation - apparently there were two different neighbor videos. This seems to be a case where the dad didn't have "parents ears". So sad.
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Old 06-16-2020, 04:37 PM
 
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I still don't know how they completely misunderstood this situation - apparently there were two different neighbor videos. This seems to be a case where the dad didn't have "parents ears". So sad.
wonder if he was working a new schedule and just fell into such a deep sleep that he didn't hear them.

But doors should be latched and locked? Wonder if they will charge him with anything else
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Old 06-19-2020, 05:28 PM
 
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NC child dies after being left in hot car

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A 22-month-old died Thursday after being left in a vehicle in Ellerbe at an unlicensed childcare facility,
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Old 06-20-2020, 06:04 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Angry Another Parent Leaves Child in Hot Car

Of course.

It's summer.

This is an annual ritual.

Why would anyone assume that imbeciles don't have children?

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Old 06-20-2020, 09:21 AM
 
Location: The Ozone Layer, apparently...
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Have vehicles become so iSmart that children can figure out how to get inside them, but cannot figure out how to get out of them?
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Old 06-20-2020, 09:46 AM
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Here's a little bit more information, but no details as to how this happened.

Both workers have been charged and are in jail; the child hasn't been identified but was a boy.

Sad.

https://www.yourdailyjournal.com/new...ensed-day-care
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