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Old 09-29-2016, 06:48 AM
 
Location: Saint John, IN
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No, its hormones, and you shouldn't be looking at it or responding like a female. So when you do, and you post something like this, it is creepy.

Sort of creepy, but what do you expect! If someone is posting these types of pictures for the world to see then IMO not only are you asking for these comments, BUT WANT the comments and attention! If you don't then why post?? This is exactly why I'm not on FB! Btw, I'm a women, wife & mother.

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Old 09-29-2016, 07:28 AM
 
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had the perfect example from about 3 weeks ago but can't find it for the life of me. a guy posted something along the lines of "sooo sexy!" He appeared to be at least 10 years older than her, slightly overweight, receding hairline, you get the idea... probably the kinda dude that would be invisible to her at a club. The next reply was from one of her friends; "ew creepy" then someone said "LOL" and nobody posted anything further. I don't know how he was associated to his girl but I just kinda felt bad for the guy
So one comment on the entire FB universe on a persons page you dont know and dont know the people commenting or relationship or context equates to "If a male were to comment with something similar he would be labeled "Creepy" or "perverted"?

You realize its human nature for people to find certain personal and sexy or flirtatious comments from someone their age or someone they find attractive or someone who is their friend welcoming while the same from someone they don't know or much older or whom they are not attracted to to be unwanted or perhaps even creepy.
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Old 09-29-2016, 09:10 AM
 
Location: Posting from my space yacht.
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Who is labeling males creepy for the same type comments? How do you know this? Can you post actual FB post where this happens?
I do not post pics but I have friends who do though not near as reveling as your examples. They get the your sexy, Hot....blah blah comments by males and females alike.
Yeah when I've seen pics like this there have usually been remarks by both men and women. Caveat being the responders tend to be in the same age range as the person posting the pics. If you're in your 40's don't go commenting on how nice your niece's hot friend looks in her bikini. Don't even "like" the pic. Just take a gander and "sit on your hands" in the privacy of your own computer room, if needs must.
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Old 09-29-2016, 10:22 AM
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Heterosexual attraction is inherently sexist. I wouldn't worry about it. It existed in modern humans at least 200,000 years before feminist theory did.
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