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Originally Posted by dstovall1019
MKWC "the grass is greener mentality"? Seriously? Who said I thought the grass is greener?
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Absolutely serious. Re-read your reaction to the schooling. At first you are concerned about the schooling "as in violence or educational?". After you get some responses, you state: "i'm not as concerned...as we don't have the best schools here either." This is typical of someone justifying a situation to suit there needs and falls under the 'grass is greener' mentality.
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Originally Posted by dstovall1019
Have you ever been here?
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Yup and will be back there shortly too. And I believe that you meant to say 'there' as opposed to 'here'; 'here' would imply that you already are on the Islands which you are not.
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Originally Posted by dstovall1019
I make life happen where ever I am be it here or there so it really doesnt matter. I dont do anything that my kids cant do or be involved in.
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Which is likely why you are single. Pretty difficult to be in an intimate relationship when it is something that your "kids can't do or be involved in."
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Originally Posted by dstovall1019
I am on here to find out what its like so to ignorantly say I "brush it off" is pretty rude. To say I dont wanna consider the truth.....the truth is it seems you have a closed mind.
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At 12:05z, you question why the schools are bad. At 12:46z, you have managed to read through all the previous posts and threads about the Hawaiian education system and have drawn the conclusion that "I'm not as concerned". So...what you're saying is that it took you 41 minutes to conduct extensive research and gather a breadth of information on education and schooling in Hawai'i and were able to satisfactorily surmise that it is of little concern to you after all.
I stand by the comment that you "brushed off" the education concerns and would suggest that you are the one with the closed mind - after all, you are the one who has done 41 minutes of research and have concluded that there would be no ill-effects on your children's education.
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Originally Posted by dstovall1019
You have kids?
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Irrelevant. You raised the topic and involved your kids this thread.
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I can say and anyone who has ever met my kids would tell you how smart they are and its because I work with them 24 hrs a day.
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Again, this is likely why you are single. Pretty tough to be in an intimate relationship when you are "work[ing] with them [kids] 24 hrs a day".
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The day we stop learning is the day we die!
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You sure about the current education system? I'm under the impression that we die because our hearts stop, not because we stopped learning.
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Being a single dad with 2 kids is alot of work. I have found many ways to make money from a/c to internet which allows me to spend as much time as possible with them and the time we spend is great.
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Want me to start a nomination for "Dad-of-the-Year" on your behalf?
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No matter what we do there is a lesson to be learned and I try my hardest to make sure it gets thru.
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A spelling lesson would be a good start. 'Through' is the correct spelling.
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Originally Posted by dstovall1019
Sometimes we have to choose which problems we can deal with and I would prefer having to continue to teach my kids vs some of the other problems that theyve had to deal with.
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Stop teaching your kids. Their spelling and grammar will continue to suffer.