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Originally Posted by eevee
SO, you won't blame the parents, the people who have probably raised this child from birth, but you'll blame the makers of a video game? huh? what, you wanna add rap music, Marilyn Manson, and the Sopranos to that list?
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Well, let's compare what kind of "entertainment" was available to the "aging boomers" when we were kids compared to what's being fed to kids nowadays. I remember things like The Lone Ranger, Gunsmoke, Father Knows Best, I love Lucy and many others. Somehow, I don't recall near the level of dysfunctionality as is rampant in things like the Sopranos, Californication, etc.
And if you listen to the lyrics of some of the Rap music, it's pretty wretched and certainly makes ME cringe.
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if you blame the video games, doesn't that blame swing back around to the parents who initially bought the games (or bought the child's first console)? I just always found it so, well, retarded, when people blame forms of media for stuff like this. but that's just me
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Let's face it: the dysfunctionality of the family is extremely pervasive in our culture. Our daughter is a single Mom (not by her choice!) who tries her best to take her kids to church and set a good example for them, and thank God that our daughter has us as her "support system" to raise the kids. Many single parents nowadays are trying
to do whatever it takes to put bread on the table and have to work either long hours or in undesirable situations other than the typical 9-to-5 workdauy that was so prevalent when the "boomers" were raised under. Our daughter has to tend bar and sometimes doesn't come home until 3 AM, so frequently, she doesn't even SEE her kids some days at ALL (my wife gets them up and ready for school)
Less discriminating people use whatever means they can find to "shut-up the kids" so they can do what it takes to survive themselves, so are looking for the "quick fix", such as TV or video games.
You're absolutely right: it DOES go back to the parents, in terms of ultimate responsibility for what the kids do for entertainment, but if some of these less-than-desirable forms of entertainment weren't out there to begin-with, then hopefully parents would be forced to make better choices. Many parents are simply "clueless" about what some of these games are like, and many of them simply don't have the time to investigate them thoroughly for themselves.
Truly, what kind of redeeming value is there in a video game that glorifies "killing cops"? I'm especially offended with such games because my middle son proudly serves as a police officer in the Phoenix metroplex and my biggest nightmare is that one day, I may have to bury my son. It would be very hard to find forgiveness in my heart if I were to learn that his attacker was some "loser" video addict that spent his time playing "cop killers" video games while he was growing-up because his mama was simply too busy trying to "do life" herself to care what her kid did.
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anyways, it's way too early to play the blame game. let's at least wait until things have quieted done and more info surfaces before pointing the fingers at EA and other game manufacturers
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