Is it appropriate for an interviewer to comment on your appearance (even to flatter)?

[xxbabeechick]

I'm not gonna entertain the talk of what kind of turtleneck I was wearing that provoked this. It's so ridic it's funny.

[Trinley]

Originally Posted by selhars

It's fascinating that people intentionally do things that would draw attention to their appearance...and then don't want to get called on that when people comment on their appearance.

I think it depends a lot on who makes the comment. She said the guy was 50+. It can also be embarrassing to have it pointed out that we're trying to get attention. We'd rather think we're just getting the attention without making any effort.

[xxbabeechick]

My attention seeking get up.



I normally wouldn't normally dress so frumpily for an open call, but it was a corporate place, it was cold and I figured good makeup and hair would make up for it.

[Trinley]

Well, don't worry. There's certainly enough to go around!

[claudhopper]

Originally Posted by xxbabeechick

Why are you worried about what I'll be doing in my 40s? I'm in my 20s...and my planned career path is sales. Please stick to the topic please and avoid talking about how "demeaning" working in the hospitality industry is.

You've got a great attitude. Serving customers is hard work and requires skill. Congratulations on the new job. Hope you enjoy it.