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Actually, I did respond to the top part of that response in post #368. The bolded part, yet again, proves my point of her elitist attitude, as if a "good man" is synonymous with income status/profession. Dating "down" is beneath her, despite how good the man may be. Let's hope her future husband never gets into a financial crisis because, as it seems from her writing, she'd probably leave him.
By the way, I hope you're not implying that I'm against her dating white men. If so, you must not have read my post where I asked why she couldn't date a white MTA worker who makes decent money. Look, she can date who she wants to date. I'm not trying to change her mind. I'm not vilifying her for not dating working class black men. I just take issue with people, such as the OP, who think others are "beneath" them. We all age, get sick and eventually die. We are, by no means, a perfect species. Know that life also happens to these "professional" men. I truly wonder how she would react if said guy ended up in a situation where she'd have to be the sole breadwinner.
I'm just curious if you have ever dated an obese woman, or a woman with multiple children? If not, why? Many of them are wonderful women and should not be excluded from your dating pool.
He is not Prince Charming if he has that type of mentality. That's a player. My Prince Charming is not the hot guy that looks good on paper. Obviously, there needs to be some sort of mutual physical attraction but I am looking for something a little more intimate. I know it sounds corny but I want love, respect and acceptance. Take a look at the video below.
For me, it is not about liking interracial dating. It is about expanding my options to find a suitable partner. There is a shortage of compatible black men. I do not want to deal with kids, baby mamas, financial issues and a man's insecurity because of his place in the world. I just want to be happy. It is just that simple.
I often at times ask women about happiness in their mates, many do not end up happy due to being happy for the wrong reasons which eventually burns out. When a woman tells me that she wants to be happy in life, I tend to believe that she has shallow complex or some neurotic issue, especially women here in NYC. Me personally I don't want to be happy because happiness burns out and die and turns into anger and pretentiousness. Me I would prefer to be content.
I often at times ask women about happiness in their mates, many do not end up happy due to being happy for the wrong reasons which eventually burns out. When a woman tells me that she wants to be happy in life, I tend to believe that she has shallow complex or some neurotic issue, especially women here in NYC. Me personally I don't want to be happy because happiness burns out and die and turns into anger and pretentiousness. Me I would prefer to be content.
What a strange post. I did not realize desiring love, respect and acceptance made me shallow and neurotic.
Actually, I did respond to the top part of that response in post #368. The bolded part, yet again, proves my point of her elitist attitude, as if a "good man" is synonymous with income status/profession. Dating "down" is beneath her, despite how good the man may be. Let's hope her future husband never gets into a financial crisis because, as it seems from her writing, she'd probably leave him.
By the way, I hope you're not implying that I'm against her dating white men. If so, you must not have read my post where I asked why she couldn't date a white MTA worker who makes decent money. Look, she can date who she wants to date. I'm not trying to change her mind. I'm not vilifying her for not dating working class black men. I just take issue with people, such as the OP, who think others are "beneath" them. We all age, get sick and eventually die. We are, by no means, a perfect species. Know that life also happens to these "professional" men. I truly wonder how she would react if said guy ended up in a situation where she'd have to be the sole breadwinner.
What a strange post. I did not realize desiring love, respect and acceptance made me shallow and neurotic.
Not that, for some women they desire good looks, or z man with money or an amazing career. Im not saying you are, but this is what I encountered from some women regardless of race, class or even educational attainment. But overall I agree with what you want in your key elements. You sound like a very genuine woman!
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