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Old 01-05-2014, 04:16 PM
 
Location: Manhattan
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But ... have you lived there ?
Because that's the thing.
I grew up in bushwick projects in the 80s so i wouldnt mind living there despite leaving the hood mentality behind long ago and i tried to convince my wife for us to take it lol. Sadly she wasnt interested (we have an almost 900sf apt in bk for $1300, and she was not born here in nyc). The double whammy was the 3rd person i showed the apt too put in an app but someone beat us to it by a few hrs
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Old 01-05-2014, 05:25 PM
 
Location: Planet Earth
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The most non fitting person i put there was a young 24yr old sexy brazilian girl whose only complaint is always getting hit on. The rent and proximity to subway is more than enough as she doesnt need to hang in that area.

You can shoot me a private message for more info if interested.
I think I'll pass on the apartment, but I am interested in the Brazilian girl.
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Old 01-05-2014, 06:27 PM
 
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I grew up in bushwick projects in the 80s so i wouldnt mind living there despite leaving the hood mentality behind long ago and i tried to convince my wife for us to take it lol. Sadly she wasnt interested (we have an almost 900sf apt in bk for $1300, and she was not born here in nyc). The double whammy was the 3rd person i showed the apt too put in an app but someone beat us to it by a few hrs
Funny thing with gentrification is the people who are poised to reap the most benefits from it are people who grew up in the hood and are doing well enough for themselves to afford these areas in transition, but not be phased by lingering hood elements. I know people who come around my way in the summertime for the beach and stuff and rave about how cool it is, yet if they took a 10 minute walk eastbound they would want to leave. But I'm perfectly fine on my block. Lol. I knew it was over when people started coming into my "superbodega" barefoot. A white family moved into my building 4th quarter last year.
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Old 01-05-2014, 07:15 PM
 
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Lenox terrace may be nice but you got the rec center in the middle and on friday or saturday nights with all those young kids out for games there, lenox terrace is anything but quiet.
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Old 01-05-2014, 07:18 PM
 
Location: West Harlem
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I grew up in bushwick projects in the 80s so i wouldnt mind living there despite leaving the hood mentality behind long ago and i tried to convince my wife for us to take it lol. Sadly she wasnt interested (we have an almost 900sf apt in bk for $1300, and she was not born here in nyc). The double whammy was the 3rd person i showed the apt too put in an app but someone beat us to it by a few hrs
In that case, we should respect your opinion !
I have met many real estate people who have never been above 59th street, yet profess expertise on very different areas.
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Old 01-20-2014, 12:12 AM
 
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Impossible to know what you mean by that.
I was being sarcastic. In retrospect, I should have refrained.

I enjoyed living there. The difficulty getting a cab going further than 110th, and the constant "is it safe" Not so much.
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Old 01-20-2014, 12:42 AM
 
Location: NYC
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I love these topics

Just goes to show the lack of street smarts transplants really have.

That area is the "hood", but most of those issues are isolated incidents.

You can live in any area of NYC if you have street smarts.

Now, dealing with hood people in a building is a different story..and that's partially the reason I stay away from those areas.

But as far as the neighborhood is concerned? No one is gonna bother you. Don't worry..that black kid isn't gonna steal your Iphone.
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Old 01-20-2014, 09:01 AM
 
Location: Harlem
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I love these topics

Just goes to show the lack of street smarts transplants really have.

That area is the "hood", but most of those issues are isolated incidents.

You can live in any area of NYC if you have street smarts.

Now, dealing with hood people in a building is a different story..and that's partially the reason I stay away from those areas.

But as far as the neighborhood is concerned? No one is gonna bother you. Don't worry..that black kid isn't gonna steal your Iphone.
exactly.
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Old 01-20-2014, 12:07 PM
 
Location: Manhattan
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I always hate the "is it safe" question. Look how many tragiccar accidents have happened recently in a "safe" area. With that said its amazing how many new apts in harlem are being rented by new transplants.
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Old 01-20-2014, 02:02 PM
 
Location: Formerly NYC by week; ATL by weekend...now Rio bi annually and ATL bi annually
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Impossible to know what you mean by that.

Most of the "new" Harlem folk are also "new New Yorkers," transplants who are determined to live out the current post-racial America dream. The same population usually comes out with a vengeance, emperor's-new-clothes-esque arguments about most areas in Harlem. The underlying logic is simple. If you observe a problem, and its author is someone you might designate as "black," pointing out aforementioned problem means that you are a racist.

Which is amusing to a point and then annoying, finally. I warned the OP about precisely this.
Ha Ha (In my Denzel voice). Do you actually live in Harlem? Or still live up here? Just asking. Your post always seem so......magnanimous about Uptown. Not trying to pick or call you out, but it seems as though you never have ANYTHING nice to say. That makes your opinion seem all-the-more disingenuous. And I wouldnt necessarily say that the whole of Harlem or the borough in its entirety is an oasis, but is it at least nice on your block? Or at least your building?? (OK, now I'm being cynical)
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