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You can always try bartering with him! "Sure I will take you to get that, but first I need some help with xxxxxx" and get some work out of him first lol
Wow, you sure have given this guy alot of power of you. I doubt anything we suggest will do you any good until you learn to stick up for yourself. Good luck!
You obviously don't know me as I'm a pretty big hard A$$. This guy has lost his wife, job, custody, almost lost his Father all within the last couple of years. That's why this is difficult.
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Originally Posted by Avienne
Exactly.
There's no need to lecture him, or, as someone else suggested, yell at him or call him names. There's no noble point to that, and it probably won't accomplish anything other than to ensure that you will never be repaid what you have already given him.
I like the barter thing suggested. If I ask HIM to help me maybe he won't need so much help himself.
You obviously don't know me as I'm a pretty big hard A$$. This guy has lost his wife, job, custody, almost lost his Father all within the last couple of years. That's why this is difficult.
I like the barter thing suggested. If I ask HIM to help me maybe he won't need so much help himself.
He must find a job, can not always rely on others.
A few years ago that would be easy, these days it is difficult at best to find a job that pays anything.
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