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I came back into town for thanksgiving. I told my friend we should do something, and she agreed. The day before we texted said she could do it around 6. I said okay and that I would pick her up.The next afternoon I texted her and she never replied never said she couldnt go. Nothing! But I saw that she could facebook. :/ Another time I invited her somewhere she said okay. The day before I told her I would pick her. Luckily I had not left my house at that time because she never texted me that whole day. She finally texted me EXACTLY the same time I was suppose to have picked her up saying she couldn't make it. Why didn't she just tell me before she couldn't make it? What if I was already at her house and went to her house and she couldn't go. Here's another story. I picked her up from her house we made plans for her to stay the night at my house. She got in the back seat because someone else was in the front seat. We get to the restaurant Im like... wheres your stuff at? She's says she can't spend the night. Okay you should have told me this I would have never picked you up in the first place. I live on one side of the city,she lives on another side of the city and the freakin restaurant is on a other side. !This little stuff just annoys me! She's a good friend I would say. I'm just going to proceed with caution and not get my hopes up next time. Does anyone have any "friend" stories?
Why don`t you confront her about this rude behaviour?
It seems like she does this to you all the time, but you never say anything to her in return. Speak up!
If you can`t confront her, then stop inviting her! End of story~
She sounds just like a friend of mine, who was fun to be with, but just never thought about anybody else. Not a mean person, just one who was the center of their own universe.
You are enabling this person by continuing to support her behavior. Don't hold back how her actions has inconvenienced you (and most probably others too). You can show these things to her without being mean yourself.
I came back into town for thanksgiving. I told my friend we should do something, and she agreed. The day before we texted said she could do it around 6. I said okay and that I would pick her up.The next afternoon I texted her and she never replied never said she couldnt go. Nothing! But I saw that she could facebook. :/ Another time I invited her somewhere she said okay. The day before I told her I would pick her. Luckily I had not left my house at that time because she never texted me that whole day. She finally texted me EXACTLY the same time I was suppose to have picked her up saying she couldn't make it. Why didn't she just tell me before she couldn't make it? What if I was already at her house and went to her house and she couldn't go. Here's another story. I picked her up from her house we made plans for her to stay the night at my house. She got in the back seat because someone else was in the front seat. We get to the restaurant Im like... wheres your stuff at? She's says she can't spend the night. Okay you should have told me this I would have never picked you up in the first place. I live on one side of the city,she lives on another side of the city and the freakin restaurant is on a other side. !This little stuff just annoys me! She's a good friend I would say. I'm just going to proceed with caution and not get my hopes up next time. Does anyone have any "friend" stories?
You don't have to hate your friend; that's a waste of time and only affects you, not her. All you have to do is not to ask her out, for you already know the answer. If she asks you out, by all means enjoy the ride, and if she doesn't, go on with your life and other friends.
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