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I'm generally a whimsical person, I see life in terms of complexity and nuance. Due to these reasons, I feel uncomfortable around autistic/hyper-rational people.
Is this bad or normal?
I grew up with a higher functioning autistic sibling. In all honesty, it was difficult. Though I can't say I feel uncomfortable around autism.
It is not bad or normal, but more like insensitive. I find that every person has something to offer and I always give them the opportunity to be included when I am in their presence.
Why insensitive? why should people accommodate for others they feel uncomfortable around?
I have Autism and in my experience the answer is no, most are not at all comfortable with autstic people. Men are somewhat more accepting than women, who often cannot deal with the monotone nature and detachment of my and my peers communication style.
It doesn't offend me, becuase honestly I live my life and really am unconcerned with how people think/feel. I will say I have met many wonderful and kind people who have shown genuine understanding and that has enriched my life a great deal.
Contrary to the current hysteria, we do in fact have feelings, opinions and emotions. More often, our emotional bluntness may in fact be due to the fact we can feel your distain and shutdown even more.
here's a novel idea: how about you exist and you let them exist. then move on to the next activity in your day? It's not like you're being chained to this person for 72 hours without food and drink. Some people will create a drama out of anything!!!
My friends who appear to have Aspergers have such a different perspective on life that I enjoy talking to them and hearing about what they are interested in. We have more in common sometimes, than more ordinary folk.
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