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Do you know how painful this is for her? My cousin is dating my x-best friend, I say "x" because she totally dropped me for him, my own cousin and best friend betrayed me, leaving me alone. So do you think about the pain she might be feeling seeing you take over her life by taking her best friend away? Shouldn't have happened in the first placed, all this unneeded pain.
sounds like a whole other thread needed for your problem;which isn't the OPs issue
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Originally Posted by Crazee Cat Lady
I agree totally with this, except maybe the LDR part.
Thirty years ago, I was in a LDR, many said it wouldn't work.
In September 2013 we will celebrate our 30th Anniversary.
OP. Have you really carefully analyzed why your GF made the decision to share this disheartening information with you, and at the same time drop your cousin in the ****? What does your GF have to gain by raising doubts in your mind about the relationship?
I think you should keep this between you and your GF. The cousin has little business making such strong opinions about a relationship that is not hers and the GF can (hopefully) make her own decisions.
What's really strange is that GF told you what the cousin said. She maybe trying to hint her fading feelings thru her cousin's words...if that makes sense. However, if you feel that she just told you that just cuz you two share everything together...then it's ok. LDR are hard but there are a select few who make it. That said, if you two do end up married, you might have to brace yourself with inlaw issues...
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