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What you just said gets us closer. You're interested in working things out and you want her to give you some clue as to how to do that. This still goes back to the missing pieces. What are you trying to "work out" and why does it - why does she - matter so much? Closure isn't significant unless the situation you're seeking to close and/or the one you're seeking to close it with are significant.
What is the actual situation and what is Jessica to you, really?
If there is a way to make things up or at the very least get the "closure", that's all I'm interested in.
I don't mind if she doesn't want to be my friend, but I'd like some clarity.
I came to the forum because I care about her enough as a potential friend to not want to "blow my chance".
I think one negative thing about facebook (sure, there are lots, I know) is that people no longer have the idea that there are some people you "used to know" who are no longer in your life, in any respect at all. Believe me, some people are much better as "fond memories" than they are today in real life. But no, everyone who ever knew us, worked with us, sat in class with us, went to kindergarten with us, now MUST be our facebook friend, and we must always be in contact. Even though anything we had in common was in the past. Sure it might be fun to re-hash some old times, but then you move on and get back to your present life.
I so agree with you on this. I liked Facebook for catching up with old friends, seeing what they are up to in life but the idea of maintaining contact for an indefinite period or forever was creepy.
Hooray! Glad that impending train wreck worked out unless you want to consider how many times a girl says she did something by accident when she really just changed her mind or otherwise did it to see how you would react and then claimed she did it accidentally as a way to avoid the conversation about why she actually did it! *waving*
Friendship is actually pretty common in the world. You must live in a very non-friendship place to find friendships creepy.
You read that wrong.
No one said that friendships are uncommon or creepy!
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