What does this comment mean to you? (male, person, feel)

[495neighbor]

I would just laugh it off. Wouldn't bother me at all.

[germaine2626]

Originally Posted by 1986pacecar

He was joking. Don't read too much into it.

Originally Posted by moongirl00

He made an off color joke. Then realized it offended you. And tried to awkwardly cover it up.

I agree.

[Crazee Cat Lady]

Congratulations on the weight loss!!!

He made an off color joke. Then realized it offended you. And tried to awkwardly cover it up.

Yeah that.....I think it was an attempt at a joke.

I don't think he meant anything bad by it, it just didn't come out well.

[Tia 914]

Originally Posted by 1986pacecar

He was joking. Don't read too much into it.

I'd say probably this ^

[dblackga]

Originally Posted by 505HPC6Z06

While at my moms (and her husband was there) I was telling her I lost 16 lbs since last time I was there and then asked how long its been since my last visit. I do the math and found I lost 4 lbs a week and share that information with her.

Fast forward and now getting ready to end my visit. Her husband says "Come back after you lose another 16 lbs in 4 weeks.". I don't respond. Then he says "You can come back sooner than 4 weeks.".

They are paying my cellphone bill so I don't ask clarifying questions since when doing so people can get offended (by having to explain they mean).

I've been analyzing his comments. When you hear his comments, what do you think?

It was an awkward joke. Laugh, already.

[don1945]

Any guy who drives a 505 hp Z06 should have thicker skin than that. It was a parting comment meant to be semi funny and to tell you to come back more often. Nothing more, nothing less.

Don

[Tobiashen]

What is it about this age group -- you didn't ask him, in a nice way, what he meant, but you're asking us?
He was just kidding, and I think you're too obsessed about your weight.

[505HPC6Z06]

Originally Posted by don1945

Any guy who drives a 505 hp Z06 should have thicker skin than that. It was a parting comment meant to be semi funny and to tell you to come back more often. Nothing more, nothing less.

Don

That makes sense; I no longer have that car. Thus, I'm thin skinned.

[ocnjgirl]

It sounded to me like he was just making a joke when I read it.

[grampaTom]

Originally Posted by 1986pacecar

He was joking. Don't read too much into it.

yep. Don't be so thin skinned.