How do you choose: (girlfriend, guilty, fiance, grandma)

[RunD1987]

Fiancé has been sick for 16 hour's vomiting been with her for 12 hour's, through the night. Now I am off and I think her mom will see in the morning. My grandmother has just been released from the hospital. I saw her Saturday in the hospital last. My mom wants me to check in on her at her house, but both my Aunt and Mom will be at my grandmothers house.

Do I stay with my fiancé or stay with my grandmother?

[Georgianbelle]

If your fiance's mom is with her, you visit your grandmother. Then, you go back to your fiance after checking on grandma.

[Aztecgoddess]

Originally Posted by Georgianbelle

If your fiance's mom is with her, you visit your grandmother. Then, you go back to your fiance after checking on grandma.

This
Not a salomonic decision by any stretch.

[MckinneyOwnr]

Actually, you might want to ask whether visiting your Grandmother is a good idea. If your fiance' is sick, and you've been with her 12 hours while vomiting, there's a very good chance you're going to get sick next and could possibly get your Grandmother sick as well. If she's just been in the hospital, she could already have a weakened immune system.

[spencgr]

Originally Posted by MckinneyOwnr

Actually, you might want to ask whether visiting your Grandmother is a good idea. If your fiance' is sick, and you've been with her 12 hours while vomiting, there's a very good chance you're going to get sick next and could possibly get your Grandmother sick as well. If she's just been in the hospital, she could already have a weakened immune system.

This^^. Don't do anything that might make your grandmother sick again.


Also, you may want to get your girlfriend to the doctor. Vomiting for 12 hours isn't normal.

[RunD1987]

It was food poisoning so far vomiting has stopped. Happen to me once sick like this 3 day's. Been up all night with her phew she is finally out.

Yeah mom's been asking g me to stop by since yesterday. No idea why I feel guilty not going. Not sure it's because of my mom. Going on about me being selfish and not helping out when the family needs it. Going over Friday as well.