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Old 01-01-2016, 11:50 AM
 
Location: Living on the Coast in Oxnard CA
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So here's the story. Grandmother went to the hospital Thursday before Christmas. Worked Christmas Eve and spent holiday's with fiancé family/mine.(Your grandmother did this or did you work and spent time with your fiance?) Couldn't see the Grandmother till day after Christmas. The following two days after that I worked and one day a 16 ( A 16 what?) so couldn't see her.

The grandmother was getting discharged from the hospital Tuesday so my Aunt took care of her during that time. Then my fiancé came sick. (Did she become sick?) we originally planned to go Wednesday, but had to bail with fiancé being sick. I worked Thursday and off today.

Today was original plan to see my grandmother, but been I'll throwing up the work's. (Not sure what "been I'll throwing up the work's" means) My mom doesn't believe it feels I making up excuses (Your mom doesn't believe it feels? Or does your mom believe that you are making up excuses?), my mom in the past thinks I make up being sick one time throwing up for 3 day's didn't believe. (This sentence is a mess.)

My mom still wants me to come today, but I can barely stand up with out feeling nauseous and making a run to the bathroom.

Any suggestions?
My suggestion is that you re write this. I can barely understand what you are trying to say here.

If you do not want to go because you are sick then let your mom know that you are sick. It is not your responsibility to make her believe you.
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Old 01-01-2016, 11:59 AM
 
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Been standing up not much energy today. Almost wanted to deck her in the face after calling me a fface and not caring about the family. Then yelled at me for not flushing the toliet I didn't flush to prove wasn't a liar.
That's just demented, lol. Nobody wants to see that, you deserved to be yelled at for that. Ick.



You're so enmeshed, it's pointless for us to say anything. You need therapy and cognitive training.
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Old 01-01-2016, 12:00 PM
 
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My suggestion is that you re write this. I can barely understand what you are trying to say here.

If you do not want to go because you are sick then let your mom know that you are sick. It is not your responsibility to make her believe you.
Don't care
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Old 01-01-2016, 12:24 PM
 
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You should care. You don't seem to be able to formulate a sentence. People judge you by your ability to express yourself on a written forum. If you want other members to respond to your posts you need to put in some effort.
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Old 01-01-2016, 12:40 PM
 
Location: Tulsa, OK
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As a retired nurse, I agree that NO ONE should visit an elderly (or any one) person if you have a stomach virus, especially one just coming out of the hospital. Tell her the truth. If she does not get over it....oh well.
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Old 01-01-2016, 12:50 PM
 
Location: Living on the Coast in Oxnard CA
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Don't care
You asked for a suggestion. I gave you a suggestion. Not sure about other posts that you have written but the OP for this thread speaks not so well of our current educational system. Excellence in writing should be a goal for all, even on a public forum.

As a writer you should want to get your point across. How are we to know what you are asking if we have a hard time understanding what it is you are writing.
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Old 01-01-2016, 12:50 PM
 
Location: Somewhere in America
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Stay home! You're ill. Sick people have no business around the elderly especially someone who just got out of the hospital.
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Old 01-01-2016, 01:01 PM
 
Location: Canada
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My mom still wants me to come today, but I can barely stand up with out feeling nauseous and making a run to the bathroom.

Any suggestions?
Well the obvious suggestion is to say no. I don't understand why you'd need help from strangers on a public forum to figure that out.

Edited to add: By the way, there's a marvellous invention called the telephone which I suspect you haven't used to contact your grandmother to let her know you are thinking of her and to see how she is feeling.

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Old 01-01-2016, 02:04 PM
 
Location: Tucson for awhile longer
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What cdnirene said.
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Old 01-01-2016, 02:49 PM
 
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How old are you? Do you live with your mother?
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