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But we were all teenagers, teens do all sorts of dumb and stupid stuff.
Yes, and lessons learned as teenagers tend to be remembered a very long time. Including who to stay away from because they are thoughtless and aggressive. The fact that you don't understand why she isn't responding is telling. Give it up OP. You burned that bridge 14 years ago.
But we were all teenagers, teens do all sorts of dumb and stupid stuff.
Accepting an Apology is not an invitation to accepting you in her life. As parnassia said the fact you don’t understand why she’s not responding is “telling “. Why the sudden interest in her?
But we were all teenagers, teens do all sorts of dumb and stupid stuff.
Cutting out a chunk of someone's hair isn't "dumb, stupid stuff."
It's aggressive, and a violation.
You know, cutting off someone's hair used to be a form of humiliation, especially for women. For whatever reason you did it, you need to be thankful she accepted your apology and hopeful that you've learned from the experience.
Cutting out a chunk of someone's hair isn't "dumb, stupid stuff."
It's aggressive, and a violation.
You know, cutting off someone's hair used to be a form of humiliation, especially for women. For whatever reason you did it, you need to be thankful she accepted your apology and hopeful that you've learned from the experience.
But surely after all these years we have all grown up. Is it really that much to ask her for a date?
But surely after all these years we have all grown up. Is it really that much to ask her for a date?
Yes. Yes it is too much. If any of your story was true, you have already shown her what you are. She is exercising her mature good judgment in declining to have anything to do with you.
If you really are an adult and not just some 12-year-old making up stories, it might be beneficial to consider seeking some sort of professional counseling or therapy to help you understand why what you did wasn't just a teenager doing "stupid stuff" and your continued pursuit of someone who is not interested in you is not acceptable.
If you are, in fact, just some 12-year-old making up stories, please get off the compute and maybe go outside and get some exercise.
But we were all teenagers, teens do all sorts of dumb and stupid stuff.
Posters here are giving you all sorts of reasons to let this go. You seem to want to argue us out of our opinions. The fact is the girl does not want to date you. You have your answer, in her refusal to answer. You simply have to accept this.
No amount of arguing about this will change reality.
Some things can't be undone. Some things can be forgiven, but not necessarily forgotten. You acted badly. She is not interested in you.
But surely after all these years we have all grown up. Is it really that much to ask her for a date?
You asked her and you got her answer. She wants nothing to do with you. Maybe it's because of the hair event of maybe something else. Time to move on.
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