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Old 07-03-2011, 04:10 PM
 
Location: New-Dentist Colony
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On our otherwise pleasant street, we have some neighbors (next door, unfortunately) who are very uncouth. (Long story involving loose dogs, spilling trash, etc.)

Just today they had a big gathering at their house. One of their guests parked in front of our house; it's a public street, so fair game.

We happened to be on our front porch and saw two of their guests--a man and woman in their 60s--go out to their car (parked behind ours), where she started smoking. Annoying enough that they chose to smoke in front of our house rather than their hosts'.

But then we saw the woman throw her butt down into the street and walk off! Even worse, she threw it close to my car instead of her own. Then they went into the house.

I try to avoid confrontation when possible. And these people, though trashy, were much older than I am. And I try to show respect for old people unless they really get rude. So with this first butt, I grabbed it and threw it in front of the neighbors' house after they'd gone inside.

But they came back a while later. Another cigarette break by their car. Another butt thrown in the street in front of our house--right in front of me as I was gardening. I picked it up and walked after them as they walked toward the house next door.

"Excuse me." No response. Again I spoke up. "I'm sorry, but I think you dropped this."

"That ain't mine; mine's in the car." A lie, as my wife and I both saw her throw it down.

I dropped the butt atop the trash can of the neighbors they were there to visit. (These neighbors already have their overflowing trash bins in front of their house, two days in advance of garbage collection--unlike everyone else on the street.)

What is with smokers who think their butts are welcome wherever they flick them? I just think this is incredibly rude. Even worse, these people were at their car--which has an ashtray!

I realize butts are small--but they're trash. And they invariably end up washing into the curb in front of the nearest house. Yet smokers (most of them, anyway) think the world is their ashtray.

You wanna ruin your lungs, that's your business. (Putting aside taxpayer-funded tobacco subsidies and the increased costs of insuring and treating smokers--costs that get passed on to the rest of us.) But for God's sake, take your trash with you!

Am I the only one who finds this infuriating?

Thanks for letting me vent.

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Old 07-03-2011, 04:18 PM
 
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This is a personal pet peeve for me.

Fortunately, I don't have gatherings near my home but I CANNOT stand people flicking their butts out their car window. Yes, it's okay to stink up the world so long as your car is clean? Uuuggghhh...don't even get me started.

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Old 07-03-2011, 04:36 PM
 
Location: New-Dentist Colony
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This is a personal pet peeve for me.

Fortunately, I don't have gatherings near my home but I CANNOT stand people flicking their butts out their car window. Yes, it's okay to stink of the world so long as your car is clean? Uuuggghhh...don't even get me started.
AMEN, SISTER! My thoughts exactly! If I were a cop, I would give people $500 tickets for this. (To achieve this, I would write up the butts as "explosive devices" rather than litter.)
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Old 07-03-2011, 04:38 PM
 
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AMEN, SISTER! My thoughts exactly! If I were a cop, I would give people $500 tickets for this. (To achieve this, I would write up the butts as "explosive devices" rather than litter.)
Considering the brush fire I witnessed over a week ago on the side of I-95 around Lorton, I would certainly classify them as explosive devices in this weather.
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Old 07-03-2011, 04:47 PM
 
Location: Everywhere and Nowhere
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I believe it is against the law to throw butts out of a moving vehicle.
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Old 07-03-2011, 04:57 PM
 
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I believe it is against the law to throw butts out of a moving vehicle.
But appears to never be enforced. Or they can't catch them at it.
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Old 07-03-2011, 05:19 PM
 
Location: Orange Hunt Estates, W. Springfield
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This seems to be a common trait among smokers. Filters are a form of plastic and do not readily biodegrade. Flicked butts start brush fires. It is littering. Smokers are not thinking about all the consequences of their habit. Some are responsible--most are not.
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Old 07-03-2011, 05:29 PM
 
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Yeah, well. My neighbors have frequent parties and their guests chunk their beer bottles over the privacy fence into my yard.

Trash is as trash does.
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Old 07-03-2011, 05:53 PM
 
Location: New-Dentist Colony
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Yeah, well. My neighbors have frequent parties and their guests chunk their beer bottles over the privacy fence into my yard.

Trash is as trash does.
Wow. Man. Sorry to hear that. Guess I don't have so much to complain about, at least in comparison. That is just incredibly obnoxious. Have you called the police about this?

Do you mind saying where you live (generally)?
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Old 07-03-2011, 06:40 PM
 
Location: Metro Washington DC
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I remember when I worked in Burke (1998) and had to drive on Ox Rd. and Braddock Rd. I'd be sitting in the left turn lane to go on Ox rd and I looked down to see hundreds, if not thousands, of butts on the ground by the curb. I was a bit infuriated by the sight, but I know there's not much I can do about it.
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