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I'm nervous and scared that he will end up not ever being able to move to California, Northern California. I can't move to his state on the east coast because of my children.
Not sure what the mother will be sentenced, what her punishment will be and if it could affect the hearing? I mean if she's in jail for a few years and why can't he move out of state to give his son the best.... And even protect his son from the mother?
I'm nervous and scared that he will end up not ever being able to move to California, Northern California. I can't move to his state on the east coast because of my children.
Not sure what the mother will be sentenced, what her punishment will be and if it could affect the hearing? I mean if she's in jail for a few years and why can't he move out of state to give his son the best.... And even protect his son from the mother?
Thank GOD your fiance at least got physical custody! He needs a lawyer, no ifs ands or buts. Tell him to beg or borrow from whomever he has to to get legal representation prior to the hearing.
Even with all the crappy things the mother has done, some places are liberal enough to give her more rights than she deserves.
A lawyer on his side is his best chance for getting court permission to take the boy out of state. Best of luck.
Thanks for your reply. Yes I agree a lawyer must be used. It sucks that she can get a free lawyer and he has no choice but to hire a lawyer. Money that will be very hard to come by. He already paid a lawyer $5000 last fall trying to get custody from the mom, btw that case just ended this last march. She hired a lawyer then. But now that she's in jail she has a public defender. Her public defender stated that "he'll never let the son leave Virginia"
He does need a lawyer. Without one, it's likely you'll never live together unless she dies of an overdose.
I wish... Not to be mean or uncaring but she is a horrible person who harms everyone she is around.
But if she is in jail , and probably will be for awhile, I doubt overdosing could even happen for a long time. We can't wait years. Yes a lawyer is needed. Ugh
Why is a public defender (assigned to her for her criminal charges) getting involved in a child custody case?! While the issues intertwine, they should be very separate. Separate court dates, separate paper work, etc...
I would find out if this lawyer is overstepping his boundaries. He may be getting involved in something that he shouldn't be spending tax payers money on.
Why is a public defender (assigned to her for her criminal charges) getting involved in a child custody case?! While the issues intertwine, they should be very separate. Separate court dates, separate paper work, etc...
I would find out if this lawyer is overstepping his boundaries. He may be getting involved in something that he shouldn't be spending tax payers money on.
That was exactly my thought!!!! Why is she able to use that public defender for the custody case?
So this brings about this issue as well....
Can a public defender of a mother in jail be used for the child custody case that resulted because of the mother being in jail? It seems unfair the father has to hire a lawyer to get custody of his son, but the mother who has multiple felony charges against her and is in jail with no bond gets a public defender for the custody case.... Is the public defender overstepping his boundaries?
So this brings about this issue as well....
Can a public defender of a mother in jail be used for the child custody case that resulted because of the mother being in jail? It seems unfair the father has to hire a lawyer to get custody of his son, but the mother who has multiple felony charges against her and is in jail with no bond gets a public defender for the custody case.... Is the public defender overstepping his boundaries?
Innocent until proven guilty - so mom gets all the free help she wants right now.
Whether it is "unfair" or not is beside the point and a waste of good energy to worry about.
Have your fiance get a lawyer, will be worth every penny he pays to save his son and give him the life he deserves.
She shouldn't be able to. The hearings would be held in front of different judges, at different times and she would have had to hire a public defender on the case # for the child custody in order for him to legally represent her. Something isn't adding up. I worked for attorney's who did family law, and criminal law and I'm familiar with how this works. It's not whats going on here, thats for sure.
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