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Wow........when I saw the thread title, I thought this was a post about thinking that the father was a TV/CD.
Of course, if that was the assumption, then an alternate explanation would be that a friend had left it behind.....for whatever reason, such as after a date, such as to have a place for spare clothes.
As an actress, I have different sets of clothes for this or that part, clothes that I might not wear day to day on the street, including men's briefs. Long story short, when I have to play a boy, wearing such clothes contributes to the feedback that the meditation world of getting into character provides. That is, it is hard to maintain the focal lock that you are a boy if you are still wearing the undies of a girl.
I suppose if someone were working in their garage on a new type of body armor, they might have a few bras around and some Shirleys Breast Enhancers to determine the ballistics as it applies to women. (Not that I think I've come across that actual situation but rather, if I were a boy and they did find my Shirleys, what might be an explanation....and I have done about 5 weeks research into body armor design and experimentation).
THE POINT IS don't jump to conclusions. Take at least a few seconds back and think, consider as much for what you take as the obvious to what might be alternate explanations.
LOL
I read this thinking, 'what the hell does any of this have to do with the OP?'
Anyway,
OP this isn't about the bra...it's about the fact that your baby daddy is hooking up with somebody else.
you have seriously got to step back. No random women is one thing to agree upon (and no random men on your part). But to freak out your son saw a bra at his dad's? You made a minor issue a major one. One he might remember v. Just forgetting with time. And more so, make him afraid to upset you and just not tell you things.
This is a risk of having a child with a man you aren't 100% committed to. And even divorce. It's just part of the deal. Deep breaths. Chill out.
I highly doubt that's what the "written" agreement says. It may have been what he verbally agreed to to minimize the drama.
Things like that can be written into decrees if one side doesn't fight it. A coworker lives with a guy whose custody arrangement says that he can not introduce his kids to any girlfriend of his...ever. Of course, she's allowed to have the girls around any guy she brings home. At the time of the divorce he didn't see himself ever dating again and just wanted it settled.
The coworker is now engaged getting married soon and the mother is trying to figure out a way of prevent the kids from attending the wedding and spending time with their father if his no longer girlfriend but wife is around.
dad gets to have a life
dad gets to have a girlfriend
dad gets to have sexual relations
get used to it
Really unless your son came home and said he saw "Daddy wearing" a bra it's none of your business...
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