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Old 06-10-2011, 09:02 PM
 
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You know that feeling you get in your stomach when you know you have to go back to work the next day? That's how I feel right now... but it's not because my job sucks and I hate going to work. I feel this way because I know that at my job, it's likely that I will be subjected to racial discrimination - not from my employer or the people who I work with - but from the customers who I have to serve.

It's a dynamic that I didn't plan for when I got this job but it now affects almost all aspects of my work-life. I won't go into too much details about this as I touched on many of the things that I experienced in an earlier thread that I wrote. Suffice it say that it's an added burden that I have to bear as I try to fulfill my potential on the job. Sometimes I think about quitting my job just because of this but I love this field of work and don't want to give it up; and with the economy like this it would be almost impossible to survive.

My question is: despite having an African American President, why does race continue to play such an overarching role in American society? I mean just look on the threads in this forum and at least 80% of them have something to do with race or race relations in America. When will race become a non-issue in America? Every time I think we've made some progress on the issue, I see something or hear something that brings me back down to earth.

I can't continue to live in a society like this. I've made up my mind that I'm moving to Canada when I get the chance. I know everything is not perfect there but at least they are not fixated on race like America is and they don't have to contend with the legacy of slavery.
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Old 06-10-2011, 09:08 PM
 
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Or you could grow some balls and not be afraid of your own shadow?
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Old 06-10-2011, 09:10 PM
 
Location: Southcentral Kansas
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You know that feeling you get in your stomach when you know you have to go back to work the next day? That's how I feel right now... but it's not because my job sucks and I hate going to work. I feel this way because I know that at my job, it's likely that I will be subjected to racial discrimination - not from my employer or the people who I work with - but from the customers who I have to serve.

It's a dynamic that I didn't plan for when I got this job but it now affects almost all aspects of my work-life. I won't go into too much details about this as I touched on many of the things that I experienced in an earlier thread that I wrote. Suffice it say that it's an added burden that I have to bear as I try to fulfill my potential on the job. Sometimes I think about quitting my job just because of this but I love this field of work and don't want to give it up; and with the economy like this it would be almost impossible to survive.

My question is: despite having an African American President, why does race continue to play such an overarching role in American society? I mean just look on the threads in this forum and at least 80% of them have something to do with race or race relations in America. When will race become a non-issue in America? Every time I think we've made some progress on the issue, I see something or hear something that brings me back down to earth.

I can't continue to live in a society like this. I've made up my mind that I'm moving to Canada when I get the chance. I know everything is not perfect there but at least they are not fixated on race like America is and they don't have to contend with the legacy of slavery.
I think you might find that a lot of that race stuff here is from lefties calling people like me a racist because I didn't vote for Obama and sure as hell don't support him now. I don't get involved much in racial threads but always get called a racist because I refused to vote for him although his race meant nothing to me. It was the policies he promised to follow that kept me away from him.
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Old 06-10-2011, 09:11 PM
 
Location: San Antonio Texas
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You know that feeling you get in your stomach when you know you have to go back to work the next day? That's how I feel right now... but it's not because my job sucks and I hate going to work. I feel this way because I know that at my job, it's likely that I will be subjected to racial discrimination - not from my employer or the people who I work with - but from the customers who I have to serve.

It's a dynamic that I didn't plan for when I got this job but it now affects almost all aspects of my work-life. I won't go into too much details about this as I touched on many of the things that I experienced in an earlier thread that I wrote. Suffice it say that it's an added burden that I have to bear as I try to fulfill my potential on the job. Sometimes I think about quitting my job just because of this but I love this field of work and don't want to give it up; and with the economy like this it would be almost impossible to survive.

My question is: despite having an African American President, why does race continue to play such an overarching role in American society? I mean just look on the threads in this forum and at least 80% of them have something to do with race or race relations in America. When will race become a non-issue in America? Every time I think we've made some progress on the issue, I see something or hear something that brings me back down to earth.

I can't continue to live in a society like this. I've made up my mind that I'm moving to Canada when I get the chance. I know everything is not perfect there but at least they are not fixated on race like America is and they don't have to contend with the legacy of slavery.

what kind of work do you do that you are constantly exposed to that type of behavior?
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Old 06-10-2011, 09:17 PM
 
Location: mancos
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Or you could grow some balls and not be afraid of your own shadow?
Thats the spirit,get off the victom wagon and drive your own team . or move to Canada. Never met a slave or slave owner in Canada, or America for that matter
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Old 06-10-2011, 09:18 PM
 
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what kind of work do you do that you are constantly exposed to that type of behavior?
I work in the customer service industry.
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Old 06-10-2011, 09:23 PM
 
Location: The Republic of Texas
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Act like an American and don't worry about race.
Why let someone else's problem, be your problem.

They are getting to you, just like they plan to. You let them. You set yourself up.
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Old 06-10-2011, 09:23 PM
 
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Thats the spirit,get off the victom wagon and drive your own team . or move to Canada. Never met a slave or slave owner in Canada, or America for that matter
Easy for you to say. Nobody wants to be a victim. If you were walking down the street and got jumped, would you like it if someone told you to stop complaining and "get off the victim wagon"?
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Old 06-10-2011, 09:29 PM
 
Location: Northern CA
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Easy for you to say. Nobody wants to be a victim. If you were walking down the street and got jumped, would you like it if someone told you to stop complaining and "get off the victim wagon"?
You poor thing, should we start a collection?
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Old 06-10-2011, 09:29 PM
 
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Act like an American and don't worry about race.
Why let someone else's problem, be your problem.

They are getting to you, just like they plan to. You let them. You set yourself up.
I wish I could just not worry about it. However, it's an ever present issue that can't be overlooked. I can't just smile and act like it doesn't exist when I see it so often.
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