The people with multiple baby mamas/baby daddies (wages, attorney, money)

[shortnblack]

Originally Posted by Raena77

Yes I think any man that doesn't support his children are scum. Same goes for mothers.

Too many low lifes. And I would never want to be catagorize as such.

So true! It goes both ways and I'm glad that you've recognized that. Men and women are both responsible for bringing a child into this world.

If you can't raise them properly and provide for them, don't make them.

[2mares]

Originally Posted by Idon'tdateyou

I think men who have more than one baby mama (meaning a woman he didn't marry)is and so are men who don't support kids he brought into the world.

Yes, arent they uh....... irresponsible, impulsive, promiscuous, don’t they suffer from low self esteem, have poor taste in the opposite sex, make bad general life decisions and are just bad because they had sex that resulted in a baby or two? Damaged goods. That what single women with children are, isn’t it. Or so Im told.

[ATG5]

When a judge tells you to stop having sex or you will go to jail, I think you can be considered "damaged goods" by women.

[CSD610]

I'm pretty sure everyone knows the definition of "Baby Mama" so you really did not have to explain it and it is a STUPID phrase as well as "baby daddy", "baby bump". Babies are not bumps when women are pregnant, and humans, male and female are "parents" simple as that.

Now that I've said that............Why do you care? You won't even look at them let alone date them so what difference does it make in your world?

[weezerfan84]

Women don't make those children alone. My Dad is a deadbeat Dad and I have no respect for him. Paid up to the point CS was no longer required and he left. Haven't heard from him in almost 15 years and he lives within 20 miles of me. Deadbeat Mom's and Dad's are all the same in my book. Not going to glorify a BOY for getting a woman/GIRL pregnant and not taking care of his responsibilities.

[smarterguy]

City-data forums: a place for sweeping generalizations

[Sonic_Spork]

In my opinion anyone who actually says the words, "Baby Mama" to seriously describe someone in their life, is not only damaged goods but probably trash to begin with. It's kind of a trashy thing to say.

[rhacer]

Originally Posted by Idon'tdateyou

Why because men who don't support their kids are scum.

So it would be possible for a man to have children by more than one woman, but as long as he kept up with his support payments he wouldn't be scum?

[somebodynew]

Originally Posted by Sweet Like Sugar

Any man who's had a child but didn't marry the child's mother is damaged goods to me.

I am not marrying someone over a birth control accident! BOTH people are responsible for the creation of the kid.

[Amelie90]

Originally Posted by somebodynew

I am not marrying someone over a birth control accident! BOTH people are responsible for the creation of the kid.

I know condoms sometimes break and birth control sometimes fails (or simply isn't used), but I think if a man isn't ready for a child, he should always take the proper precautions to prevent pregnancy and I doubt this is happening in a lot of these "baby mama" scenarios. Furthermore once the child is created, what is the man's excuse for not wanting to marry the woman? She's good enough to have sex with and impregnate, but not good enough to marry? (red flag) He's too young/not ready for marriage/doesn't believe in marriage? (red flag) The woman doesn't want to marry him and is choosing single motherhood instead? (red flag)