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Originally Posted by charolastra00
So unwanted children matter less than babies. Got it.
And you say we're the sick ones.
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Wow, putting words in people's mouths? Not sure I should even bother responding since you seem to just want to illicit an emotional response.
I said they are two completely separate issues. The reality that there are some absolutely terrible parents out there -- so bad that their children need to be taken away for the children's own protection. That's why we have an overcrowded foster care system.
It's got nothing to do with abortion. It is the result of people who went ahead and chose to have their babies in a variety of financial and marital circumstances, then they were criminally irresponsible at parenting. Yes these kids matter. We need a better foster care system than the one we have now. These kids aren't getting adopted right and left because the psychological trauma they've been through leads to behavioral issues that your average newlyweds are completely unprepared to deal with. For the record, I intend to foster once my kids get a bit older because yes I really do care about those kids, and I'm happy to put my money where my mouth is. But it's all off topic anyways.
If you want to start up a thread about the foster care system, then by all means do so.
But it is not about abortion. So stop trying to hijack this thread with other issues.
On topic: What I did say is that there is a shortage of newborn babies available for adoption in America today. There is a backlog of would-be adoptive parents. There's a much larger group who simply can't afford the average $30K it costs to adopt a baby, but who would be happy to take in the unwanted babies otherwise. There are religions who would step up and accept the challenge to find good families for a very large influx of unwanted babies. What I said is that if somebody gave me the chance to adopt a baby that they would otherwise abort, I'll be happy to do so. So to those who want to say, "You want to save them but you won't help them once their born," I say you're wrong.