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So, let me ask you this. If I sat down next to you and started fondling you and when you told me to stop I could dismiss the incident it by saying "sorry, I thought you might like it"?
I'd need to see a picture of you before I decide how to respond.
It might be a violation of school policy but it's not clear at all that the girl sees it as a violation to her.
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"metoo has been good in a lot of respects, but it's a big mistake to lump everything even remotely sexual with serious, life-altering attacks."
She complained to the administration, so it wasn't welcome and this part of the post is why I responded as I did, that just because it wasn't "serious, life altering" it still matters enough to let people know not to do it.
She complained to the administration, so it wasn't welcome.
"metoo has been good in a lot of respects, but it's a big mistake to lump everything even remotely sexual with serious, life-altering attacks."
This part of the post is why I responded as I did, that just because it wasn't "serious, life altering" it still matters enough to let people know not to do it.
Everyone knows to not do something unwelcome, but when a minor same action could be welcome or unwelcome and isn't always clear, some want to make it out to be a "serious, life altering" event.
I don't believe all the sexual harassment hysteria that women are so fragile. I think something else is afoot.
Everyone knows to not do something unwelcome, but when a minor same action could be welcome or unwelcome and isn't always clear, some want to make it out to be a "serious, life altering" event.
I don't believe all the sexual harassment hysteria that women are so fragile. I think something else is afoot.
Clearly that's not the case or it wouldn't have happened to that daughter, nor would all the other cases of harassment. I was grabbed by the butt or breast pretty often in middle school. Was it life altering,or tragic? No, but would I have prefferred it not happen? Yes. That was my point with the initial post. Girls don't want to be gabbed or groped by anyone they aren't dating. Hitting on a girl is usually a kiss or touch on an arm, maybe a thigh and that's fine but not a crotch or boob. If a girl has not kissed someone they should not grab her anywhere sexual.
Last edited by detshen; 09-26-2018 at 12:32 AM..
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